I don't think anyone is minimizing the cancer diagnosis.

Commenting on clothes and shoes is a hobby just as commenting on skating costumes.
It's been 20 + years since my back and my feet have given me the green light to wear fashionable shoes.
When DH and I are sitting at a restaurant or bar outside I will do people and shoe watching. He just is just amused. Thursday we went walking in the mall. Silly as it seems, I got sad passing the shoe store
@PrincessLeppard I would spend hours in looking at shoes. Most of them were out of my price range.
So my comment was I could never wear those shoes. Not ignoring her cancer diagnosis.