hanca
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No, I am not wilfully blind. I do agree that they should be investigated. Definitely! I just don’t think it has been proven (yet) that they abuse children. There are definitely things that raise concern, but all those bits taken out of interviews, it doesn’t really gives the full accurate picture. When you investigate something, you hear something and ask many questions to clarify whatever was said, to get the most accurate picture of what’s going on. In interviews, they don’t ask those questions so it can be easy interpreted wrongly or take out of context.I feel like you are being willfully blind. You know they control what their skaters eat, keep their parents away from them, weigh them every day and dis them on social media. They also practice up to 12 hours a day. Even professional athletes in endurance and strength-based sports don't practice that much.
All of this was before one of their skaters failed a drug test. There is no way that they shouldn't be investigated for that.
For example - keep them away from their parents - this came out in connection with Zagitova. We don’t know the details of what was going on between Tutberidze and Zagitova’s mother, but whatever it was, it seems Tutberidze decided not to coach Zagitova if her mother was around. It doesn’t seem as a standard practice in their group, for example, Lipnitskaya’s mother was even made a part of the coaching team. A few years back Tutberidze also spoke in some interview how some parents are coming to watch the practice. (Was it Voronov who had his parents at every session? I don’t recall the details.) Coaching is not only about working with the students; it involves also working together with the students’ families towards a joint goal. From whatever reason, Tutberidze felt she can’t work together with Zagitova’s mother. Nevertheless, it was the family’s decision to have Zagitova living with her grandmother and be coached by Tutberidze, rather than the option of Zagitova living with her mother and be coached by someone else. Being coached in Tutberidze’s group is not compulsory! So why is Tutberidze blamed for the separation? Do we have details about how often Zagitova could see her parents? She could have seen them every weekend. Many children have to live temporarily with their grandparents, for variety of reasons. Do we know what relationship she has with her parents, and what relationship she has with her grandmother? You decided that this was a sign of abuse, named it as one of the things to prove that Tutberidze is abusive, but is it possible that living with her grandmother was actually a satisfactory arrangement for everyone involved? Especially when it was meant to be temporary, for a year or two, and could have been easily stopped if it wasn’t working - the family could have easily decide that it wasn’t working, send Zagitova back to her parents and change coaches.