What do you mean by Alina's own grandmother injured her?
Her grand-mother was putting a compress on her ankle, misread the label on the liquid bottle, made the substance too strong, held it on the ankle too long, and Alina got bad burn-blisters which turned into an injury. Alina had to go to the doctor and came a day late to the last Russian Nationals.
From everything I've read, it appears that Eteri encouraged Lipnitsaka's ED. IIRC she was proud of the self-control Lip exhibited in staying on a powder diet.
Tutberidze was aware of Lip's eating issues (which she had since childhood). In order to help her, she arranged with the Federation to hire Lip's mother as an Assistant Coach, with full salary and travel benefits, so that Lip's mother can take care of her health and diet. Lip's mother found a diet-consultant who advised this powder. Mother accepted it. Tutberidze was faced with this fact, that Yulia will be taking this powder with yogurt. She realized that it is tough on Julia, said so herself. Yet given it was Yulia's Mother who chose it, just accepted it.
There probably are North American coaches who support disordered eating/EDs, but none have made public statements or demonstrated practices of providing such support, SFAIK.
No coach ANYWHERE supports or enourages disorder eating. Often coaches and parents are not aware until it obvious. When a coach suggests that a skater must be in a certain shape in order to handle high level technical content, it is assumed that it will be done in an appropriate manner. It is up to the skater and parents to decide "can it be done without harm".
If it requires "harm", then the skater/parent should decide is it worth it, or should one either reduce expectations and goals, or leave the sport.
And it's true that 'illiberal methods' allow the coach more control over the skater. But that doesn't mean coaches don't have a huge influence over skaters' dietary practices and how they perceive their bodies.
Skaters and/or their parents have eyes and brains. Like my grand-father said "If 10 people jump off the 10-story building, does not mean you have to do it, just because they do or say it is ok".
Obviously, nobody now is pushing Daleman towards anything "unhealthy" and yet she is fixated on "mutilated images of her body" in the IG. And yet...... nobody helped her with it at the rink. Maybe she needs someone to take her under her wing, tell her she is special, invest time in her and HER DIET, and yes, be a little strict.
Maybe Orser much earlier should have arranged, like Tuberidze, for SkateCanada to hire Daleman's mother as an "assistant coach" and help her daughter with diet and self-image...
