For what it's worth I am neither jealous or conservative. I just thought the TotC dress wasn't fitted right and kept slipping down. And the Countess of Wessexs outfit from 2011 showed a heck of a lot less skin even with a deep neckline and was no where as off shoulder as Meghan's.
And no way does her Ascot dress from today wash her out. It suited her totally and was lovely. When you are that beautiful you do not need to flash skin to prove it. The dress was crisp and light and the hat was perfection.
I don't think Meghan needs to flash skin to look sexy and edgy.

With her body type, she looks good in a particular kind of styling which she's rocked and then some both pre- and post-Harry.
https://www.usmagazine.com/stylish/...ce-harrys-lady-won-on-the-red-carpet-w495894/ Of course Meghan would no longer wear many of these types of edgy styles any longer, and I never did think she looked that great in every mini-dress she wore, but I don't think she needs to be so overly low with her so many of her hemlines. More of a just below the knee length rather than just above the ankles. I'm not talking about the Royal Ascot dress because it does have a lovely assymmetrical maxi-hemline. It's a pretty style on her and the white is okay, but it just doesn't strike me as a wow look. It's beautifully styled, but rather conservative and low-key, which is surely intentional on Meghan's part.
I think Sophie Countess of Wessex looked gorgeous and elegant in 2011. I am not criticizing Sophie's show of skin or saying that it was more or less than Meghan's, just that it was a distinctly lower neckline that showed some cleavage and an expanse of neckline was showing too, even though it was not a shoulder-hugging look -- and Sophie was not targeted with OTT criticism. I only pointed out what Sophie wore in 2011 because some critics have claimed that they've never seen royal ladies exposing as much skin as Meghan did at TofC. NOT true, obviously! Meghan's look was not 'off-the-shoulders' either despite it being described that way. The top encircled her shoulders in a very flattering way. What I hope hasn't happened is Meghan being affected by any of those mostly jealous and pearl-clutching critiques to go too conservative in her sartorial choices.
Unavoidably, Meghan is now trying to fit in with her new family and with her new country. This attempt to meld and to be low key can be seen in her adopting overly conservative hemlines. I can understand lowering her hemlines a bit because she's also a bit self-conscious perhaps of 'skinny legs' critiques. But sometimes the hemlines have been too low, particularly for that otherwise gorgeous black suit she wore accompaning Harry and William to a Commonwealth church service. That overly low hemline did not hit her legs at a flattering spot either. For me, right now I don't see the royal sartorial transition working 100% smoothly for Meghan, regardless of the fact that she's gorgeous and she tends to look good in most anything. Even the baggy curtains look the other day did not detract from her inner glow and her outer gorgeousness.
I really have to laugh at the amount of OTT critiques Meghan received for that very sexy neckline and shoulder-blade baring TofC outfit compared to the fawning over her more conservatively-styled ensembles she's worn since TofC.
Again, I'm not saying that it's been a lot of critiques on FSU. I'm talking about in the media in general.
Again, Meghan doesn't have to show skin to look sexy, elegant and pulled together. I loved that iconic navy Antonio Berardi assymetrical hemline dress she wore at the polo match with Harry last May during their courtship days. Bellisima! And, the Roland Mouret navy dress we briefly caught a glimpse of on Meghan the day before her wedding is sublime and unforgettable. I'm not interested in Meghan focusing on looking sexy in any case. She's not someone who even has to try hard to be glamorous. Right now, it just seems like she's trying to fade into or fit into the royal scene a bit too conservatively. I'd just like to not see her swallowed up into Harry's royal orbit completely to the point where she loses her own voice, her edgy, savvy sass, her confidence and her laid-back sophisticated style. She's already given up so much to marry Harry. I know she sees what she's given up as worth it because she loves him, and she wishes to fully embrace life as a royal wife supporting her husband and her new country and being able to place a focus on humanitarian work. It's early days yet, but I'm still holding my breath re hoping we won't see Meghan disappear completely behind palace walls and into the royal sinkhole. Of course, if it turns out that she's happy and that's her choice, fine. It's her life and she's smart enough to make her own choices.
I think the styling of the dress and hat Meghan wore to Royal Ascot today are okay. Another Givenchy, similar in palette to the more fitted cream dress with the cape top that Meghan wore in Cheshire. The look today is white rather than cream. It is definitely styled better to fit her than the blue & white country curtains look the other day. However, today's Royal Ascot white dress is not a memorable Meghan look IMO. I love the white-on-white embroidery detail at Meghan's waist, but for me this particular shade of white with covered-up styling gives her a washed-out look. You don't have to agree
@Lorac. That's just how I happen to see it. As I said earlier, this dress would have been more interesting to me in a brighter pop of color. I hope Meghan decides to bring in other designers besides Clare Waight Keller of Givenchy -- enough of the white/cream dresses. Let's see some pop of color please. I loved both of the pale pink dresses (at the BP garden party and at TofC). Okay Meghan, settle in and be low-key until you get your sea legs, but please don't let who you are disappear so much.
Understandably, right now Meghan is busy behind-the-scenes with Harry planning out their royal engagements, among other heady tasks (the stuff re her father's poor choices likely is taking a backseat). M&H are gonna be quite busy over the next 6 months, as already mentioned by KP. Here's the latest (an upcoming visit to Dublin):
https://twitter.com/kensingtonroyal/status/1009002544360755200?s=21