aftershocks
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Prince Charles was not married in the 70’s. He may have had a number of girl friends, but not mistresses.
Actually 'mistresses' is accurate because the ladies in question (Camilla Parker-Bowles and Dale 'Kanga' Tryon) were both married while Charles was having affairs with them both off and on. I started out describing them as girlfriends when I first posted the link, until I watched the documentary all the way through and realized Oh well, those were the 1970s days of aftermath of the Swingin' Sixties carried over into another decade.
It's really rather instructive with all of the description about "unwritten rules" regarding upper class British aristo marital affairs with the heir to the throne. For example, the one about Camilla knowing she could no longer carry on intimately with Charles after her marriage, because she had to first give birth to her husband's first child. But then some reasonable time after giving birth, it was perfectly okay to resume her affair with Charles. And of course, the cuckolded husbands were fine with it all because I guess there was supposed to be some status attached to allowing your wife to carry on an affair with the heir to the throne -- giving it up for king and country IOW.
I know that's just the way of upper class British life traditionally (going back for quite awhile). The roaring twenties and the jazz age were also very raucous periods. There are plenty of books and movies detailing the decadence. I'm not saying Prince Charles was decadent in the 1970s. I think his behavior was rather mild in comparison to his star-crossed relative, the Queen's cousin, the devilishly handsome Prince George, Duke of Kent, who was reportedly bisexual and a drug-addict. The royal family surely grieved but they may also have been relieved when he died in WWII during a top secret mission. OTOH, Prince Charles was simply needy emotionally, and he was also caught up in those younger days with being the 'most eligible bachelor in the world.' He followed along with the age-old aristocratic traditions, and he listened to his elders when they laid down the law on the necessity for him to marry a virgin, rather than propose to someone he truly loved.
For me at least, the documentary I linked (I came across it randomly on Youtube) is eye-opening because in looking back, a sea change happened (at least among the royal family) when a young innocent 19-year-old bride married Prince Charles because she was in love with love. She didn't apparently know anything about the unwritten rules of being the long-suffering wife and putting up with your royal husband carrying on with a long-term mistress. Royal wives from the past (especially Queen Alexandra) and the not so distant past (take your pick) suffered in silence. Diana changed the unwritten rules (at least in regard to how the royal family forever after viewed marriage, divorce, extra-marital affairs, fidelity, the benefits of marrying for love, the need to prepare young wives marrying into the family, etc).