eusebius
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WOW! Glad I am not living in your head.
While you're criticizing her for not trying hard enough to learn the ropes, or for jumping ahead with things before she fully understands how royals are supposed to behave.
You're also completely missing the point that she may never be able to adapt, and not for lack of trying.
I am more criticizing the whole if it is true I want to go and change everything and things like Progressive new role. If I am joining an institution that is that old I learn about it first.
Since I was working as a substitute the last thing I cared about was dread Locks sneakers hoodies. I just wanted the kids to not act out so that the entire class could learn.
Plus a lot of those kids were poor and didn’t have much so the last thing I would ever do is criticize their clothes or hair
I always thought Meghan had gorgeous hair.
For the record I am not saying Meghan should become someone she is not. But if you are going to chose to represent a country as part of their royal family their should be some level of learning the culture and at very least refraining from things like I want to be a disrupter.
Yeah most of those kids in the school were African American and had African American teachers no one was critizing hair. Plus it seemed like a lot of the parents liked uniforms. If your poor and you don’t have a lot of money for fancy clothes uniforms are an equalizer.Oh the kids in Canada can wear their hair the way they like. I’m in Ottawa so it’s very multi-cultural which I am so used to.
Yeah most of those kids in the school were African American and had African American teachers no one was critizing hair. Plus it seemed like a lot of the parents liked uniforms. If your poor and you don’t have a lot of money for fancy clothes uniforms are an equalizer.
I will never forget one moment when I helped a kid tie his shoes and noticed his pants were way to big. The kid gave me a look of it is what it is. Don’t judge me. I just smiled at him and helped him tie his shoes. It was clear to me that was what he could afford can’t imagine critizing a kid like that.
Yes many kids school lunches and breakfasts are only meals they get.Absolutely. Our public schools run breakfasts so kids can eat. It’s available to all the kids though so nobody feels singled out.
The UK have school uniforms.
That is just a thousand times wrong, demeaning and classless.The video of Harry pressing Bob Iger to give Megan a Disney voice-over job is so awkward it is cringeworthy. Iger looks like he can't wait to get out of there.
I am at the uproar around Megan and the view that her and Harry's decision to relocate to Canada reflects some terrible failure on their part. The woman can't win for losing.
All people make mistakes or decisions that will be questions for some (not saying this is the case for Megan). All people will be seen to have erred if their lives are held up to the level of scrutiny that Megan's is.
How much time would be enough? It's been over two years since they announced their engagement. They've been married for almost two years.I am a believer in learn the rules so you can successfully break them, and I don’t think Meghan spent quite enough time on the first part.
That is just a thousand times wrong, demeaning and classless.
The Royal Family is beloved and admired. They hold themselves and are held to a higher standard.
Good for them.Princes William and Harry have issued a joint statement regarding what they claim is a false and inflammatory report in The Times:
Harry and William brand 'false' story about their relationship 'offensive'
I think everyone thought that as Meghan was a much older bride, she would be much more cautious about what she got herself into.
But she’s made the same misjudgment that a 19 year old Diana did. So age and experience hasn’t helped at all.
Exhibit A: whenever I show people my cat or dog I can't tell you how many times people have said "but I thought Chinese people eat cats and dogs."
But back to Meghan... I really, really liked her when she first came on the scene and thought Harry was definitely marrying up. I started having my doubts at the time of the wedding and now think this marriage was a terrible mistake. I soured on it because of the hypocrisy, the ghosting of past friends/family, the incessant whining, the entitlement, and the treatment of people behind the scenes—much of which has never hit the tabloid media. None of this has anything to do with racism.
Japan has a history of racial discrimination against other races not just whites. I am sorry racial discrimination is not just a white person thing. Look at Rwanda and yes racism has gotten better. Look at Jim Crow and where are now do you think 100 years from now Meghan would have married into the royal family.@Oreo that is such a false equivalency. White people can never "understand" the experience of racism. They can understand prejudice, but not racism, because the white race is the race to which all others are compared (and inevitably considered inferior). I'll never remember how in 7th grade history the teacher said "Eastern culture is inferior. Western culture is superior."
So if the Japanese are hostile to white people it's after many brutal years of oppression by white people. That's prejudice, not racism.
I also don't believe people will ever become less racist. I think laws can be passed to make racism more difficult for people, and there can be policies within companies that fire people for egregious cases of racism (like the radio personality who called Archie a chimpanzee), but the racism will always be there and it will never get better.
Also I hate to say it but "entitlement" and "hypocrisy" are two of the words most lobbed at women of color. It's like Michelle Obama being called a gorilla and also "hypocritical" and "entitled" even though she was none of those things.
@becca Jim Crow were LAWS that were changed. Laws changed. But I fully believe that had they not change, many people would still be 100% in favor of segregation.
So as I said, laws against racism change. But I don't believe people become less racist. It just becomes HARDER to be overtly racist.
For instance, I believe that if it was LAW that Royals could not marry non-whites, a large majority would be in favor of it.
For the record I am not saying Meghan should become someone she is not. But if you are going to chose to represent a country as part of their royal family their should be some level of learning the culture and at very least refraining from things like I want to be a disrupter.
She knew marrying him meant representing a country. Other girls like Chelsy broke up with him because they didn’t want that.Meghan did not choose to represent a country. She chose a man to get married to. Big difference. And IMO she made a huge effort but @mag is right that whatever she did would not be enough. There's been plenty of reports that Camilla was not in favor of Kate because her background wasn't upper-crust enough. What do you think she felt about Meghan? The offensive brooch thing makes it clear that Camilla isn't the only family member with that attitude.