a Rhythm Dance to Springtime with Hitler please?
Nope, I know you think this type behavior can continue, but the risks are way too high. I know you'll give the few cases where everything was fine, but it can't continue. It prevents sexual abuse, we need to do it.I liked all your points, except these two. This is so subjective, in terms of one's temperament, personality, culture, upbringing, sense of personal space/privacy... There are coaches who are naturally give you hugs, friendly, helpful, offer rides home, buy you snacks, fuss over you, try to fix your hair, socialize with your parents outside of the rink... I can easily see someone "with different mentality" thinking its "grooming".... And the 2nd one in general promotes "snitching"..
The second one is not snitching, as you say, it's called creating a safe culture for all.