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@PDilemma ITA with your whole post. I too do not “hate” Meghan, and while I think much of what has happened and is causing them stress is self inflicted, no matter what the cause, I certainly hope they can work through it all and come out whole in the end. The irony is not lost on me that many of the problems are what has been reported William was concerned about.
Something has me really perplexed. Why are Harry and Meghan reading the tabloid press or social media crap? It is not as though they are standing in line at the supermarket and can’t avoid the headlines. They should have someone prescreening their social media comments and simply not read the gutter press. They say it is “all lies.” Then don’t read it and don’t dignify it with a comment. They can get their news from the reputable papers. Friends should be instructed that under no circumstances are they to comment to the press. That really seems like basic stuff to me. My only answer to this is that they are looking for an “other,” an enemy outside because it protects them from the hard look at themselves. They both appear to have pre existing conditions from prior to their marriage that now require their attention, and add to that marriage, baby, loss of a career, and an across the globe move, and it would be shocking if it was all sunshine and roses. I don’t think six weeks will be enough. Hopefully there is someone in the Royal family who recognizes that they need ongoing professional help and insists they get it. I don’t know who that would be. William and Kate seem like the obvious choice, but we know how that worked out last time. Charles, bless his heart, has not to my knowledge ever demonstrated an understanding of mental illness or the effects of stress on people and relationships.
Something has me really perplexed. Why are Harry and Meghan reading the tabloid press or social media crap? It is not as though they are standing in line at the supermarket and can’t avoid the headlines. They should have someone prescreening their social media comments and simply not read the gutter press. They say it is “all lies.” Then don’t read it and don’t dignify it with a comment. They can get their news from the reputable papers. Friends should be instructed that under no circumstances are they to comment to the press. That really seems like basic stuff to me. My only answer to this is that they are looking for an “other,” an enemy outside because it protects them from the hard look at themselves. They both appear to have pre existing conditions from prior to their marriage that now require their attention, and add to that marriage, baby, loss of a career, and an across the globe move, and it would be shocking if it was all sunshine and roses. I don’t think six weeks will be enough. Hopefully there is someone in the Royal family who recognizes that they need ongoing professional help and insists they get it. I don’t know who that would be. William and Kate seem like the obvious choice, but we know how that worked out last time. Charles, bless his heart, has not to my knowledge ever demonstrated an understanding of mental illness or the effects of stress on people and relationships.