If you aren't hot and bothered then maybe avoid using terms like silly, sue-happy, etc.
People who sue a lot are 'sue-happy'. A lawsuit that says K/F are profiting off of Olympic revenue/this song is 'silly' in my opinion. I'm not 'hot and bothered'. I'm mildly bothered. I'd be more bothered if it had affected K/F's performances, but they did some of their best ever skating, so I'm fine.
Do you really think they knew K/F were skating to this song and waited until the very worst time to ask them about it? Most likely they were alerted to it because they or someone they knew drew their attention to it being used in the TE.
I'm aware that the band likely didn't know the song was being used until the Team Event, but when they found out isn't my point.
I think mid-Olympics is the worst time to ask skaters about music licenses, yes. It could have waited until after the Olympics. You don't need to sue figure skaters hours before they compete. Acknowledging that the skaters are at the OLYMPICS and cannot immediately address your concerns is what should have happened.
They contacted K/F's agent who is in the US, not in Beijing, and who should know enough about music rights to realize they needed to respond. (If they don't know about music rights, they are a sucky agent).
I'm not sure what you expect K/F's agent to know about music rights since it seems virtually every song these skaters use is covered under some sort of blanket licensing. The skaters/agents don't handle this stuff. The band did indeed get in contact with the agent- how he went about handling the conversation doesn't have anything to do K/F, who were focusing on their competition.
By filing the lawsuit immediately, no one can argue that they knew about the use and did nothing so they must have been okay with it.
Fair enough. I think waiting 3 days to file the lawsuit would have been appropriate to allow the skaters to complete their Olympic event without feeling stressed by a lawsuit. But again, I'm not expecting a lawyer to have a heart or show any consideration for the people they're suing.
Honestly, if the agent didn't respond to the band, I doubt they told K/F about it until after the Olympics. And I doubt K/F even knew about the lawsuit until they came home because there is no way they could be served over in Beijing in the Olympic bubble.
K/F definitely knew about the lawsuit. They were questioned about it after the FS and said they had people taking care of it and trying to shield them from distraction while they were competing. Alexa gave a quote after the SP about how they were trained to "endure whatever is brought to us" and focus "no matter what they felt"- that led me to believe they knew about the suit before the SP too. They would have found out just hours before that skate. But who knows, maybe her quote was referring to the adversity of having a early start order and not the lawsuit. But they definitely knew by the time of the FS.
So what you are wrong about:
(2) that K/F didn't get money from being in the Olympics (3) that using this music didn't help them make that money -- music is part of the performance -- you can't separate it out
What money did they get for being in the Olympics? They will get money for winning a medal. Is that the same thing? The medal is for their athletic achievement, not their music. But okay.
(4) that other people agreeing with you means you are correct
Condescending much. It's just my opinion. You are free to disagree about how this was handled by the band. Many people don't like how it was handled.
(5) that this band uses sync licensing so they can go around suing people rather than them thinking it's a better way to license their work (because IMO it is a better way especially)
Quote I found in an article--- "Fortunately for NBC, the Olympics qualify as a live event, so no synchronization licenses were required. NBC paid the blanket fee and a separate royalty for each performance of a song."
This was your quote:
"Originally I rolled my eyes at this suit because I assumed that the music was covered by the normal licensing companies. I realize now that was dumb. Especially now that we know one of them has a lawyer for a father.

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I interpreted your quote as you thinking they use different licensing because of their lawyer father. Correct me if I misunderstood.
(6) that it matters if other people using this song didn't get sued
All I said was it a shame Hase/Seegert's lawsuit wasn't a much bigger story because it would have warned other skaters about this song. I'm a huge pairs fan and I don't recall ever hearing about H/S having an issue, in fact they used this music for 2 seasons.