A good friend of mine had 3 weddings - one in a courthouse, for legal purposes, where they didn't host a party. One with his bride's family in Japan, a traditional Japanese wedding. One big party in Canada, with my friends family and friends, a big Chinese-Canadian style wedding. It was a way for them to honor the traditions of both their families.
People have several weddings for multiple purposes. I think it's no use judging other people's choices, especially when it doesn't affect me in the slightest. Unfortunately Meryl and Fedor forgot to invite me to both the wedding in Provence and in the US
Meryl's second dress is simple and elegant, and I love the flower crown.