I've known plenty of people who have had two weddings and it always strikes me as selfish and extravagant. Why not do your actual wedding at home, save some money, have your grandmothers involved. I would have moved heaven and earth had my grandmother not been able to go to my wedding but luckily she was. That sort of thing is priority to me. I think for a lot of couples--I'm not saying for Fedor and Meryl--the look of things, the money they spend, the big party and showing off is more important than honoring family and a marriage. It's nice they were able to do a second wedding but it seems very extravagant to me, and focuses more on having a luxurious party, than what a wedding is about...celebrating a lifelong commitment. That's just how I see it. Shrug.