canbelto
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A lot of the criticisms of Meghan were strikingly similar to the criticisms of Michelle Obama including yes, the word "pushy" and the awful ape/she's a man memes.It doesn't automatically but a lot of times when it is directed at a Black woman it is code for "not knowing their place" and "their place" is code for "back of the bus."
I do think the UK tabloids lost their collective minds when Harry got engaged to a Black woman, let alone divorced and American. They said blatantly racist shit and they also got fully on board with a lot of racist tropes and microaggressions. Black women being called pushy for perfectly normal behavior is a common one. It's also sexist because it's used against all women just for having autonomy.

How Michelle Obama expanded the definition of a first lady | Margo Jefferson
The rules imposed on her were constricting. So she expanded them and, in the process, won people over without betraying herself
And many of the comparisons to Melania and Laura Bush were again, Melania and Laura were so "classy" compared to Michelle Obama. So similar to the comparisons to Kate and Diana.