And now having finished reading the interview and seeing Grant's message to fans, I'm crying. Thank you Grant for sharing your career with us, and for being such a wonderful human being. Kudos to you and to Caroline for keeping your upcoming wedding private and personal. Have a blessed day full of memories you will always cherish and fondly recall.
I also want to thank Grant and Caroline for caring about animals and for sharing the story about their pets and the cats they have helped. Anyone who is feeding outdoor cats should do everything they can to try trapping and neutering (with help from a local animal group) so that the strays can get medical care, and spaying/neutering, which will cut down on the unwanted cat population. Those strays who can't be domesticated can be released back to their outdoor territory, if they are in a safe area where they will continue to be fed.
And dearest Grant, please don't be sad about the stray mother cat you rescued no longer allowing you to pet her. I think she was letting you know during the time she allowed contact that she understands you are trying to help her and she was thanking you. Because she's been outdoors for so long, it will be difficult for her to accept staying indoors. Having her freedom is in her blood. So after thanking you, she may have pulled back because she may not want to take the step of completely depending on you. She may not be able to give up her independence. One thing you can try is finding an animal behaviorist/communicator or cat whisperer to attempt communicating with the cat and finding out what she wants. It is possible. Not through words, but there is a mechanism for it which skilled, intuitive specialists are able to accomplish. I'm sure you can find a good local animal communication specialist in your area of California, if you want to go that route. If not, you may have to simply release the mother cat back outdoors and continue to feed her.
ETA: With time, attention and patience, it might be possible for the cat to accept full reliance on human care, but only if that is what she truly desires.
Thank you so much for rescuing your sweet pets: dog Kingston, and cats Qui Qui, and Daisy, and for finding homes for the kittens you couldn't keep.
