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@AxelAnnie, sorry, I did not mean to be cryptic. I grew up in the former Soviet Union with a Russian mother and a Jewish father. Growing up, I was often reminded that for Russians descent was traced through the paternal line, and for Russians I was a Jew; but for Jewish people descent was traced through the maternal line, and for Jews I was a Russian.
For many years I was happy to be no one in particular. Given that I do not practice Judaism or know/follow any customs or traditions, I never felt that I had any right to call myself Jewish, so I didn't. But after the Unite the Right rally in Charlottseville and the mass shooting at the Tree of Life synagogue (which is a few blocks away from my house), not acknowledging this part of my heritage felt like hiding. Practicing or not, my children and I would have been plenty enough Jewish for concentration camps in 1934 and then for the gas chambers after WWII started. Therefore, 'wrong half Jew' is the most honest way I know how to describe myself.
Ania, Reform Jews consider you Jewish by patrilineal descent and many Russian Jews in Israel are “wrong half.” (They are citizens but not considered legally Jewish by the ultra-Orthodox authorities.) My daughter is “right-half” and my niece and nephew “wrong-half” but they all consider themselves to be half-and-half’s. My SIL is also that but without any Jewish education or affiliation.
You can be as tribal as you want to be.