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OR, women who have to wear a shit ton of makeup and ultra-bling for their job just like having the freedom to not do that when they are not working. I was a performer for years and almost never wear makeup outside of the stage.Ok this is apropos of nothing but since I have been following the feeds of some figure skaters today ... cannot help but notice how many young, pretty female figure skaters favor a no makeup/track pants look off the ice. In fact there are a few I need to do a double take to see if it’s really them. I cannot help but wonder if so many of them favor this look off the ice bc they associate the dolled up competition look with something traumatic/uncomfortable. I have worked with enough survivors of sexual abuse to know this is a common reaction. De-sexualize yourself. Dress baggy, with no makeup. Don’t look pretty.
I don't recall ever seeing a skater dressing so far down to seem like it is a reaction to anything. I don't spend time looking for skater candids, so feel free to correct me if anyone has been dressing like an Olsen twin, but I've only seen female skaters look like conventionally well-presented women.
Also, not wearing makeup or dressing comfortably is not the same thing as not looking pretty.