Anita18
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I'd say it's pretty common knowledge by now among East Asian tiger parents that this is indeed the case. My mom has a "friend" (read: the only other Chinese person in the neighborhood so they became defacto friends@feraina Based on a recent Ivy League alumni event I attended, I'd say there's a ton of reasons why it would be stupid for Nathan to go to an Ivy League for pre-med. But I don't exactly think that's something many people know or would believe.
All he has to do is go to an accredited university and complete the prereq classes for med schools along with some research experience while maintaining a good GPA. He could go to UC Irvine, Riverside, CSU Northridge, Cal State Long Beach (right near his training ice), etc. for all the med schools care. As long as that GPA's great, you meet the prereqs, and you have research experience.
) in CA's Central Valley who had her then-HS son's future all planned out. UC Merced for pre-med because "it wouldn't be that hard to get A's" then UC Merced for medical school. Again, because it wouldn't be that hard to get good grades.
The friend made this plan about 5 years ago, but said son is not getting with the program, since he's getting B's at UC Merced already. 
If Nathan chose Yale, I think there are other reasons he did other than "he really wants to be a doctor" because yes, there are easier ways of reaching that ultimate goal. Maybe he really liked the vibe? Maybe he wanted to go to a smaller campus? Maybe he wants a backup if he decides pre-med is not for him?
I decided mere months into my college career that pre-med was not for me. But my alma mater was strong enough that even though I graduated with a general biology degree with a so-so GPA, it still had clout showing up on my resume.

at Ivy Leagues. I have worked with a few...but then I'm sure I have my
If he can't, he'll find out soon enough and figure out what to concentrate on right now and what to put off for a while. Selfishly, I'd love to see him concentrate on skating for a few more years and then go to school, but of course that brings its own issues with it. We'll just have to wait and see how it goes.
: My intellectual self-esteem took a huge hit in college, and it took years until I got it back.