Susan1
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Well, she got in bed with him so I think she "liked" something about him. And YOU don't get to decide whether he's doing fine or not. (By that I meant he is not affected by AxelAnnie's or your approval.) Unless you personally are required to babysit or financially support the baby, none of this is your business. How would you like it if your cousin felt that she was entitled to approve or disapprove your life decisions? If you love her, emotionally support her. Period. The baby is here, it's a done deal.
AGAIN, I am just sharing my cousin's complaints here. She had to wake him up to yell at him! Then he pouted and left. She doesn't know what HER DAUGHTER could have possibly seen in this guy either, her first "serious" boyfriend.
And I would certainly expect my cousin to have an opinion and advice and comments if I was in any kind of negative life situation.