3.
Gracie Gold would have gotten on my last nerve and I would have thrown her jacket in the trash too. 
I say that as someone who has been entirely supportive of Gracie and her journey. I am not a therapist and neither is Frank.
4. And I have a whole five minutes of sekret knowledge

where I eavesdropped on Frank talking to Dice Murakami at a summer comp. He was calm, focused, making suggestions,
not at all “my way or the highway” (certainly a lot less than good old Rafael A. comes off) Now is he going to scream and curse at a public venue? No. But I also think he gave zero fcuks about someone overhearing him either, and was not changing his style for that.