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So did I.Can confirm Dalilah was at Cranberry with the Crafoords—saw her with them there
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So did I.Can confirm Dalilah was at Cranberry with the Crafoords—saw her with them there
I think I have totally missed all this too but my excuse is Covid brain mush and a stressful health situation in my family right now. I will go catch up.Given the allegations revolving around Sappenfield I don't understand why she still had work in recent years, but at least with this suspension nobody will be able to go to her and people will be safe.
My heart goes out to the complainants. It was brave for them to come forward and must have been so hard to wait for the investigation to progress.
You were one of the frequent posters in the original thread.I think I have totally missed all this too but my excuse is ********* brain mush and a stressful health situation in my family right now. I will go catch up.
This woman sounds absolutely vile. I’m not American, so I wasn’t aware of her history, so I appreciate the information laid out in this thread.
It sounds like she is still in charge of some junior pairs, which is more concerning to me than coaching a highly visible senior pair. Junior skaters are much more vulnerable to abuse and have a harder time speaking up. Hopefully this suspension is the first step toward ousting her from the sport permanently (and ultimately legal consequences) for the sake of the pupils she still has.
Isn't the real question why would the Swedes remain with her as their primary coach? Well, that and I think the Swedes could improve if they switched to a different coaching team. Meno/Sand are getting crowded but it seems like the Cains or Peterson/Amanda Evora should have room for another team in their program.My $64,000 Question:
Will Shameless Coach have the gall to show-up w/ the Swedes at Nebelhorn?? ? ?
As @2sk8 already pointed out, she has not been suspended at this time, but has had "temporary restrictions" imposed, which do include "coaching / training restriction(s)," whatever those may be.
This means, among other things, that she must have another adult present when she is working with minors. IINM, that adult could be TJ Nyman.Travel / Lodging Restriction(s), Coaching / Training Restriction(s), Contact / Communication Limitation(s), No Contact Directive(s)
Maybe another pairs coach at Monument, such as Natalia Mishkutienok, will accompany the Swedes henceforth to competitions.Isn't the real question why would the Swedes remain with her as their primary coach? Well, that and I think the Swedes could improve if they switched to a different coaching team. Meno/Sand are getting crowded but it seems like the Cains or Peterson/Amanda Evora should have room for another team in their program.
Tony I have no idea how many times you said I was a frequent poster and saying that I said stuff when I didn’t. Do you actually stalk people’s posts?You were one of the frequent posters in the original thread.
Give me a break.Tony I have no idea how many times you said I was a frequent poster and saying that I said stuff when I didn’t. Do you actually stalk people’s posts?
Maybe I don't Tony. You didn't answer my question ... why do you stalk my comments? You can just move on to other people's posts. You certainly have absolutely no business telling me what to do.Give me a break.Clicking on the thread that was conveniently linked above (which I happened to re-read prior to your statement and noticed your name plenty), anyone can see that you were actively a part of it and giving much more elaborate replies than your usual. Maybe you need to just revisit the thread for a refresher.
Here we go for another round of nonsense. I didn't stalk your posts, and I promise your vague one-liners are not something I would ever go out of my way to find.Maybe I don't Tony. You didn't answer my question ... why do you stalk my comments? You can just move on to other people's posts. You certainly have absolutely no business telling me what to do.
So sorry if these questions have been answered before, let me know if it's too much here, I guess I need more information:It's not even a temporary suspension. It's just some temporary restrictions based on allegations of misconduct, some of which seem to be pretty much the same as what Safesport requires anyway . Not really like a hammer slamming down, at least not yet. More likely highly litigated with support of her attorneys, and time just keeps marching on. And, yes, she still has international skaters who trained with her when they competed for the US, so...still waiting...
My $64,000 Question:
Will Shameless Coach have the gall to show-up w/ the Swedes at Nebelhorn?? ? ?
Why on earth would you even bother Tony??? Really? Are you that bored?Here we go for another round of nonsense. I didn't stalk your posts, and I promise your vague one-liners are not something I would ever go out of my way to find.
Pointing out to you that you indeed did post in the original thread is pointing out a fact, not telling you what to do.
Call it “The Not-so-Champs Camp”!! TJ can cook the ‘s’mores...In that case, Oberstdorf may book her for a Summer camp with Karel Fajfr.![]()
This topic is much more serious than you coming in with constant obtuseness when a link was provided in post #31 to revisit your prior statements. Moving on.Why on earth would you even bother Tony??? Really? Are you that bored?
**** off Tony and get a life. Condescending remarks don't work with me. You are just a nasty person in general ... I've never seen you post or respond without belittling remarks. Putting you on ignore feel free to do the same ??.This topic is much more serious than you coming in with constant obtuseness when a link was provided in post #31 to revisit your prior statements. Moving on.
Fejar is a perfect example of a coach who continued to have clients long after allegation of abuse. It was the accepted norm then, but that norm is changingIn that case, Oberstdorf may book her for a Summer camp with Karel Fajfr.![]()
Thanks @overedge, boy do I seem stupid, but really...so, if in this case it's temporary restrictions, then it doesn't seem as if it would ever evolve into a temporary suspension? This is it, this is all, ever? I was just dreaming? It's nothing?@Lacey other posters here might be able to give more details, but SafeSport doesn't do trials with judges and juries. It investigates complaints and makes a decision on whether to issue a penalty based on what it finds in the investigation.
The difference being.....?It's not even a temporary suspension. It's just some temporary restrictions
There isn't any such thing as a general release. You get released to skate for another NGB.I think the release was to skate for the US, not just a general release(?)
That's a good idea. If you two have more to say to each other, please do it by PM.Putting you on ignore feel free to do the same ??.
As overedge noted, this is a short-term action in an investigation. SafeSport received a complaint (according to TSL, there are multiple complaints but there hasn't been anything officially stated yet) and determined there was enough evidence to issue a temporary suspension/restriction while they continue to investigate to determine if there was indeed a violation and what consequences should be imposed.Well, even I wouldn't trust my opinion in this case, not sure if I understand that the investigation is yet ongoing.
(ETA, I wrote this before @overedge did just above, thanks @overedge.)
I would imagine that Temporary Restrictions purely and simply mean that USFS has recommended no American clients use her, (but does it also say, it's a law?). So, if you are contemplating using Delilah Sappenfield, one could see that the USFS doesn't think you should use her, (but you still might???) Those are your restrictions. Period. Also doesn't say for how long. And nothing else.
I would imagine that accusers could bring private criminal cases if they want, but the burden to do so would be on them as usual.
OK, sorry if I interrupted anyone's day.
I am even more sad now.