What are people saying to you on Facebook?
Oh I live on the NE-IA border, it's really ugly for any sport. I have siblings who went to different IA schools and any games they play against each other are vicious name calling, except when they play NE, then they are united against NE. I've left family functions if it gets really, really bad.
I have friends who actually put vile signs in their yards about Chiefs, or Vikings, or Green Bay, or Bears, or Broncos, Raiders. You know - things like the only good fan of xx team is a dead one - stuff like that.
I have a high school friend who lives in New Orleans and every team except her Saints. Iowa State University, LSU, and Tulane are sh×t, I have a friend who is related to Noah Fant and when the Broncos traded him to SeaHawks she has been down right vindictive in her hatred of the Broncos, another one who calls the Dallas Cowboys the Cowgirls.
These are people who for the most part are otherwise pleasant, nice people. But sports, particularly football, turn them hateful vindictive people. So during.football season, I put them in time out.
I usually do one FB post at the beginning of the season saying we all have a favorite team but in the end it's a game. That even players know that they could be teammates with anyone at anytime. I know it's futile but I do warn them time outs will occur. It's a game, it's entertainment, it's sport.
The things in the games that I can't tolerate are cheating or bad sportsmanship. Bad calls will happen, after all refs are people too.
In the players on or off field - behavior that wouldn't be acceptable for anyone.