As is the "I knew nothing about him".
Meghan said,
"Because I'm from the States, you don't grow up with the same understanding of the royal family. While I now understand there's a global interest, I didn't know much about him and so the only thing that I had asked her when she said she wanted to set us up was, 'I have one question, well is he nice?' Because if he wasn't kind, it didn't seem like it would make sense..." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wW2oLfsHMc
Now that may seem disingenuous to some people. It makes sense to me. I followed Diana and the royals, but over the years, I wasn't following either William or Harry very closely as they were growing up. And not living in Britain, we in the U.S. don't hear as much about the royals on a daily basis as people in Britain do. Plus, it's possible to know who the highest profile people are in the British royal family, but that doesn't mean you actually know everything about them, if you haven't spent time reading everything that's been written. Meghan has surely been too busy with her career and with living her life to have spent time reading about a famous person she had no idea she'd ever meet. Just because Meghan admired Diana PofW as a teenager does not mean she was ever fan-obsessed with either of Diana's sons.

The fact is as a result of Meghan's work on
Suits and her circle of friends in Toronto, she ended up meeting Misha Nonoo and Violet von Westenholz who both knew Prince Harry personally. Also, Meghan's dear friend, Markus Anderson (who had formerly introduced Meghan to Misha), was acquainted with Prince Harry. Markus helped accommodate Meghan's and Harry's first meeting at Soho House London to ensure their privacy.
The indiscreet revelations by Meghan's former friend and project manager, Gina Nelthorpe-Cowne, certainly indicate that Meghan was excited to meet Prince Harry, but who wouldn't be? That doesn't mean she wasn't interested in finding out about his character. And she couldn't have known that they would hit it off and become close as quickly as they did. Meghan actually had a lot of things to reflect on and decisions to make and things she sacrificed in order to marry her prince. In a situation like that, I think it's crucial to know yourself, to trust the person you are in love with, and to have no illusions about the upsides and downsides of life in the royal family. Obviously, Meghan felt it was worth it, but I don't think she felt that way for only the obvious reasons of uber wealth, privilege and status. She's actually in love, and she actually is interested in serving others through humanitarian work. So it all came together in a way that to me seems like fate. But you've got to be a strong-minded, self-confident person to take on such a life. Those are qualities that both Duchess Kate and Duchess Meghan possess.
Yes, we don't know all the nitty gritty details about exactly how M&H's first meeting came about, nor are we likely to find out. They aren't going to reveal everything to us. Enough is being made up and exaggerated and/or mistaken about what
has been revealed and gossiped about. I can see why some people assume Meghan is fake due to some of her 'actor-like' mannerisms. When you are in the public eye, as part of your profession, you learn how to put on a 'face,' but that doesn't mean Meghan lacks sincerity. In fact, all of the royals know how to put on their public face too, out of necessity. It comes with the territory. So Meghan fits in quite well with the royal firm in that respect, as in many other respects. She strikes me as a tough cookie with a resilient shell and a soft center.
It's certainly not unusual to meet someone and to feel the spark of attraction and then to bond over similar interests. For anything further to develop, it takes time getting to know each other better and developing mutual trust, which means opening up to each other and shedding the public face. It's just that when you are a Prince of England, this process involves developing a relationship on a totally different and more complicated scale. Harry had learned from his previous relationships, and so he made certain to do everything possible to protect his privacy with Meghan so they would have a chance to really know each other and to be comfortable together before the paps and tabloid media hit. They were fortunate to have been able to keep everything under wraps as long as they did.
We will never know who M&H truly are on a deep level because we will never have the opportunity to get to know them privately, unless any of us happen to cop an insider job at KP, eh.

And even then, staff is not close friends and family. One thing we do know (especially if you watched their wedding ceremony), these two are really into each other. I believe as Meghan said in
Vanity Fair "We're two people in love..." Oh and btw, Meghan gave that interview with the blessing of Prince Harry and the royals. It was a trade-off for her not having been able to do any promotional interviews for
Suits once she began dating Prince Harry. Her producers were very understanding even though speaking to the press was part of her contract. The problem is reporters would have bombarded her with questions about her dating Prince Harry, so that was a no go. The VF interview served two purposes: to help promote
Suits' seventh season, and to begin the roll-out of introducing Meghan to the British public, in advance of her appearing with Prince Harry at the Invictus Games in late September 2017. Meghan actually responded to only a few questions about Prince Harry, but the VF interviewer slanted the published interview to focus more on Meghan and Prince Harry rather than on Meghan and
Suits.