Fluff up your tutu & dance away.....
I phrased it the way I did because the friends who went a little wild after a divorce were not doing what was in the best interests of their children. They wanted to go out lots of nights so after not seeing their kids all day they left them with babysitters 3 to 4 or more times a week. I also went a little wild after my divorce but my dog forgave me.I'm not sure not wanting to be tied down is the more accurate wording. It was more that she went a little wild after the divorce. This is not uncommon after a divorce.