It is everywhere on royal social media. It goes basically like this: Meghan is too old to have got pregnant so quickly so clearly she is using a surrogate and faking the pregnancy. Proof is first her age, because no one over 25 or so can get pregnant ever (except Kate apparently as many of these people are hoping she has a fourth baby) and in an extension of the conspiracy: claims that she is actually over 40 and lying about her age (there is nothing to substantiate that at all). Other proof includes the vague due date--late April/early May instead of an exact date being given to the press. Never mind that the vague due date has been given for all of Kate's pregnancies as well and that if they had a surrogate, there is absolutely no reason they would not know her due date. Further proof involves the varying appearance of her belly which is a bit odd, to be honest. I'm inclined to think she has padded it or used shaping undergarments at times because it has indeed appeared smaller on days after it appeared bigger-- perhaps a maternity band of some kind for whatever reason at some times. Other ridiculous proof is that her hands and ankles do/have not appeared swollen ("My hands were swollen for an entire year when I had my babies, no way she's pregnant" says Conspiracy Karen on Instagram), her face is not round enough, her belly is too big or too small for the pregnancy stage she is/was at, she shouldn't be able to walk that fast, squat, move in this or that direction ("My balance was so bad that I couldn't turn around without assistance for my 14 pregnancies, she's not really pregnant!" writes Pregnancy Plot Peggy on Yahoo) and on and on and on.......In the racist variation, the surrogate is white and only Harry's sperm was used, not Meghan's egg (and that goes with the age thing--because in some people's minds, a woman can't have viable eggs at 37) so the baby will be white.
It's gross. It's body shaming. It's pregnancy shaming. It's age shaming. It's fertility shaming.
Pointing out that keeping that kind of a secret in the age of social media and 24 hour news would be absolutely impossible given the number of people that would have to be in on the secret doesn't help. Pointing out that there is no shame in fertility assistance doesn't help. A friend had IVF for her first pregnancy and was very protective of that information. I didn't get it. Now I do. Apparently, some people still attach a stigma to fertility assistance of any kind. So pointing out that surrogacy is increasingly common and more famous people have been open about it in recent years doesn't deter them. The rumors of a home birth or smaller hospital and no photo call are feeding it even more.
Anyway...given how widespread that idea is on royal watching social media accounts (there are entire Twitter accounts dedicated to it and a couple of IG accounts pretty committed to it as well), and comment sections all over the web (you can find commenters advocating it at Yahoo, the Express, Daily Mail, etc....), I really think it would not be wise of them to have some sort of home birth and just release baby photos later. Go to Lindo, pose on the steps to shut it down. Some will never give it up, but some will be shut down. And if they can't shut it down a bit, it will follow their poor child forever.