Thank you for this. We do very much need legal counsel - I need to figure out what kind. The Rink, the Skating Director, a prominent coach, the club parents and skaters - no one believed us. The local Police dept even had kids in the club and seemed unlikely to believe us at the time and we were reeling in panic for quite a while. These people all absolutely adore the perpetrator.
The perpetrator now tours the world on USFSA's dime and enjoys fame and adulation (and access to people of all ages over whom they have a power differential).
Our skater lost their close knit community and left the sport entirely and is likely emotionally traumatized for life - even with extensive ongoing therapy. They are also as of recently a legal adult and have the most say in our next steps forward if any.
I know I will personally have regrets for the rest of my life for any steps we have and have not taken. It is so very difficult.
I will say it feels nice to at least say these things out loud and feel heard.