VGThuy
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This reminds me of Tatiana Navka marrying Nikolai Morosov so they could compete at the Olympics for Belarus.
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This reminds me of Tatiana Navka marrying Nikolai Morosov so they could compete at the Olympics for Belarus.
Eh. We all know nothing will happen. Russia never did get banned for doping.Disagree. There is plenty of shrieking to go around for every country.
If they truly are marrying off their skaters for citizenship, I can't imagine that is the only questionable actions the coaches are doing. I imagine for MIDA to take Tsarevski on, there must have been some legitimacy to him leaving the way he did.
Here's what Tsarevski has publicly stated about the split with Flores from a 2023 US Figure Skating Fanzone article.
He also stressed his good relationship with his family, likely because Flores insinuated that he was being held against his will.
And there were A LOT of divorces - even more often than Hollywood today. Were the divorces mandated as well? Wasn’t Clark Gable married five times? And Mickey Rooney eight times?
That’s one point that’s potentially concerning about this.
Because nothing screams DL just trolling for attention by dropping that tidbit right around the same time that Morozov/Chen take the ice for their GP debut, now does it?we'll just wait for the next report.
Oh here it is. https://x.com/SkatingLesson/status/1847696849647628330
Chapter 8 of his book Talking to Strangers.What does not make sense to me is that there are so many sexual misconduct allegations in ice dance - this does not make sense for some reason. I need Malcolm Gladwell to pay attention and explain it to us.
After listening to his series of talks with Paul Simon where he talked far, far more than he allowed Simon to talk...blech.Chapter 8 of his book Talking to Strangers
Or to help their kids achieve their own dreams.Some parents will do anything to accomplish their dreams through their kids.
Yeah, it's one thing to break up as a couple of athletes who work together, quite another to have to get a divorce to do it.And there were A LOT of divorces - even more often than Hollywood today. Were the divorces mandated as well? Wasn’t Clark Gable married five times? And Mickey Rooney eight times?
That’s one point that’s potentially concerning about this.
The way it’s hitting me at the moment, with the caveat that I have only been processing all of this for like an hour, is that “the other stuff” is horrific in a way that seems very specific to figure skating. Most of the stories of sexual assault and abuse that we read about in this thread, as awful as they are and as much as we know the culture of figure skating contributes to the circumstances surrounding them, are not unique. They are the kinds of things that happen (unfortunately) all the time outside the context of figure skating.
This situation? Three teenage skaters from the same school that just happens to operate right under the noses of the highest-ranking officials in U.S. Figure Skating are married to their Russian partners in a situation that almost certainly involves varying degrees of grooming and conspiracy to commit immigration fraud, with the potential for a human trafficking conversation on top of all that. This is not a story that could happen anywhere. This is a story about so many of the ways that figure skating has a deeply problematic culture, and I hope it becomes the scandal the sport deserves.
That's not how it works in the US. I gather you are not from here from some of your comments.But only if they have actually applied for citizenship already. Otherwise, it's just seen as two young adults who got married.
I have no idea if any of the 3 teams in question have applied for citizenship or received citizenship. If the answer is yes, then immigration fraud would come into the picture.
Anyone can join USFS. You fill out a form and you pay a fee. For the skaters, it's joining a club, not applying for a job. (Not to mention, not all jobs do much checking at all. Maybe they call your references, maybe they don't.)I guess my biggest question is.. skaters need to be released by their current federation and I assume they would present paperwork to their new federation before being accepted (i.e. passports, residency visas, marital status... just like any application)? I mean you have to submit this paperwork for any job in any industry. When these WASA ice dance couples joined USFS, did the USFS just not ask questions or what? I don't even understand how this could have happened.
If they truly are marrying off their skaters for citizenship, I can't imagine that is the only questionable actions the coaches are doing. I imagine for MIDA to take Tsarevski on, there must have been some legitimacy to him leaving the way he did.
Please elaborate re: human trafficking…?
It seems to me that all we know here is that there were marriages. To date, the marriages strike me as business decisions.
You seem to be assuming that marriage = sexual relationship.
Having known a few people who married for citizenship purposes, I can attest that this is not at all a given.
We have two teenage girls who were married to imported skating partners they had only known for a handful of months, and they then kept it secret. You don't think that's ick? Or at least incredibly suspect?Plenty of couples get married at an early age. Some of the couples have known each other since 14, some have known each other only a few months. Some have a wide age difference. Sometimes those marriages are to get out from parents homes.
Is the ick factor because they are skating together, or one may be seeking citizenship, or just what?
Are people putting an ick factor because it is ick for them or because we are making assumptions or ick for us?
Three.We have two teenage girls who were married to imported skating partners they had only known for a handful of months, and they then kept it secret. You don't think that's ick? Or at least incredibly suspect?
Yeah, no kidding. But it doesn't make them sexual abuse or grooming, either. I think some are taking the term "marriage" a lot more literally than might be the literal case.I agree that these are "business decisions," but that doesn't make them legal.... (It also doesn't automatically make them illegal.)
Yes, I think we all know this, too. But as hard as this might be to believe, people who will lie about the basis of their marriage also lie about having sex within that marriage. From what I have heard, immigration doesn't ask for a lot of details about people's sex lives because it's such a minefield. They are more inclined to ask relationship questions that are really hard to fake. My husband and I were talking about this at lunch and we went through some of the questions I've known people to be asked. And, uh, we did not do all that wellWhile not strictly required, it is one warning sign of potential fraud. The married couple needs to prove that the marriage is bona fide and not an attempt to circumvent immigration law.
We don't really know how involved the parents are, do we? At 18/19, the women don't need parental permission to marry. The parents may approve, may not approve, may not even know about the marriages for all we know.If her parents were ok with marrying her off to the stranger/new partner there most definately was very unhealthy pressure on Tsarevsky as her partner at the time.
I wasn't counting Neset/Markelov, since we knew they were married, and they do seem to be legitimately involved, and knew each other for multiple years... but I agree the rumours of an earlier secret marriage make it sounds like it's the same kind of thing, and there's a reason they're getting mentioned in this thread.Three.
Well that is absurd to think that parents are not involved hereWe don't really know how involved the parents are, do we? At 18/19, the women don't need parental permission to marry. The parents may approve, may not approve, may not even know about the marriages for all we know.
My sympathy ended when his suspension for sexual misconduct began.Ivan, on the other hand, is a 23-year-old with no family support (his parents have passed away) and is struggling to make it on his own. His situation must be incredibly overwhelming. I feel very sorry for him.
nobody knows what happened.My sympathy ended when his suspension for sexual misconduct began.
That's just one of the things that signals it was not only a terrible plan, but a very poorly thought out one. They honestly thought that no one would ever notice the pattern and start asking questions?I don't see how an immigration officer could consider Isabella Flores's marriage anything other than fraudulent, based on her own social media. She marries her partner, who needs immigration status, and then sleeps in the same bedroom as her sister and posts about it???
My sympathy ended when his suspension for sexual misconduct began.
Agreed, we don't know precisely what happened. I will point out that @kosjenka replied to one of my comments on Xwitter with a bit more information about Desyatov's personal situation. His parents died when he was 12, leaving just Ivan and his brother to fend for themselves. While one would hope there was family to step in, there may very well have been coaches & other skating folks who took Vanya under his wing and basically sold him off to skate for Belarus when he was 16. And then, to find himself in a position where he was scared of the very real possibility he and his brother could be drafted and sent to the war front in early March 2022 - desperate times call for desperate measures.nobody knows what happened.
Whatever it was, it was enough for SafeSport to suspend him, so likely to have been something fairly serious.nobody knows what happened.