overedge
Mayor of Carrot City
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Agreed 100%. But I want to live in a world where people look out for each other. The abuse is the responsibility of the abuser alone. But if I was at a party and left someone underage alone there...where she/he was abused, I would be having feelings about my wanting to party and not being aware enough of my surroundings (and those present).
I haven't read whatever exact details Rapp revealed about the party - other than the specifics about how Spacey attacked him. AFAIK at that point in his career Spacey had a reputation as a fine actor but not a reputation as an abuser, so I am not sure if there would have been any reason to be suspicious of how he might behave.
I get where you are coming from about wanting a world where people look out for each other. But I also don't want to live in a world where I assume everyone is a potential abuser and treat them accordingly.