Hi everyone. I noticed that people were discussing my Twitter thread about the allegations surrounding Katsalapov, and I wanted to briefly address the issue and make a few clarifications.
I received this information from 1) an advocate for sexual assault survivors in sports (who gave me permission to share the information) and 2) the video of the incident between Sinitsina/Katsalapov in Canton and the discussions about it on FSUniverse.
Here are my sources for the information in the thread:
1. Elena Ilinykh and Nikita Katsalapov confirmed their romantic relationship by posting "couple photos" throughout their partnership.
2. Nikolai Morozov confirmed that he was in a relationship with Elena by posting "couple photos" in September 2012. At the time, she was 18 and he was 36, and he was in a position of power over her because he was her coach. However, the aforementioned advocate said that they were involved several years before they went public with their relationship, and I've seen multiple people on both FSUniverse and Russian forums confirm this to be true. Some of their photos are in this Tumblr post:
https://apurplecheshirecat.tumblr.com/post/32465967450/i-dont-even-know-what-to-say
3. The advocate also shared that Nikita verbally raged at Elena over the Morozov situation because he was jealous. I don't have a second source to cross-reference, but I do know that Elena and Nikita have both alluded that their relationship was volatile - almost every public figure in skating has referenced their clashing tempers, and they had a very messy split in 2014.
4. During Ilinykh/Katsalapov's split, Elena took most of the blame, even though Nikita was the one who initiated the split. If you scroll back through the old forum threads on here or on Russian forums, you'll see plenty of people blaming Elena. (Most of her haters slut-shamed her for dating Morozov, even though the blame should've been on Morozov for preying on a teenage girl).
5. Elena said that Nikita chose to end the partnership at 2014 Worlds. There was a lot of drama at the time because the press announced that they would be splitting before Nikita told Elena that he wanted to end the partnership.
Российская фигуристка Елена Ильиных сообщила агентству "Р-Спорт", что инициатором распада ее танцевальной пары с Никитой Кацалаповым был партнер, сообщивший ей на прошлой неделе о прекращении сотрудничества.
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6. Victoria and Nikita left Zoueva's training base in Canton suddenly in the summer of 2016. Victoria claimed in an interview that they left willingly, but on FSUniverse, people had been posting that a short video clip of an altercation between Victoria and Nikita had been posted online, then deleted quickly. If you go back to the threads from that time (I believe it would be in the From Russia with Love Summer 2016 thread), you can find the discussions. They also said that the police had been called to the rink and that Victoria and Nikita were kicked out of the rink after the incident. The athlete advocate also told me that all of these details were true.
7. Victoria addressed the altercation in an interview, which I linked in the Twitter thread. When asked about why she and Nikita suddenly left Canton, she suddenly responded, "I don't want to talk about it." When the interviewer kept pushing for details and asked if Nikita had hit her, Victoria quickly denied it and changed the subject. However, when there was literally a video clip of the incident posted online, I find it difficult to believe that it didn't happen when several people saw it with their own eyes.
8. Victoria openly spoke about her eating disorder in the same interview.
I included the information about Elena and Morozov's inappropriate relationship to provide greater context on the overall dynamics between Elena, Nikita, and Morozov. It's not Nikita's fault that Morozov is a predator, and I clarified this in the Twitter thread. I also know that Nikita was still a teenager when Morozov started grooming Elena, and since Nikita was still Morozov's student, it would have been very difficult to confront Morozov.
However, Nikita IS responsible for his own reaction to the situation. Put yourself in Elena's shoes. A 30+ year old serial predator got her into a volatile relationship with an obvious power imbalance. That would obviously cause emotional problems for a teenage girl. And instead of offering emotional support, Nikita just raged at her because he was jealous of Morozov. I don't blame Nikita for not fully understanding abuse culture as a teenage boy, but his own behavior was out of line. It's never okay to rage at your girlfriend, but it's even worse when you're raging at her because you blame her for getting sexually abused. Even if Nikita didn't quite understand how messed up the situation was, he had no right to treat her so cruelly.
I'm not saying Elena was a saint, but I think many people dismissed her trauma because they thought she was just a "drama queen".
I completely agree. Unfortunately, DV and SA tend to get swept under the rug much too often because even when there is proof, many people try to downplay it or blame the victims. In addition, these attitudes make survivors less likely to come forward because they are afraid of being attacked for speaking out.
I'm not the one who's villainizing Nikita. He has villainized himself by being an abusive jerk.
I specifically mentioned in my Twitter thread that I do not believe in weaponizing abuse for fan wars. Sinitsina/Katsalapov are beautiful skaters, and I don't have a personal vendetta against them as athletes. These allegations existed years before I posted my thread, so it's not like I just made them up because I wanted people to dislike Nikita.
However, fans have the right to know that these allegations exist. You can choose to believe or disbelieve them, but I personally choose to support the victim unless it can be proven that the victim lied. I know that this may seem harsh, but studies have shown that false abuse allegations are far less likely than true ones.
I actually agree with this statement. I think everyone has a different definition of "problematic", and it makes it difficult to discuss issues because not all problematic actions are equal. And I don't like that "problematic" has become a euphemism for more direct words like racist, abusive, misogynistic, homophobic, etc.
I called P/C problematic because 1) Guillaume posted that he did not support vaccine passports and 2) both Gabriella and Guillaume have claimed to support abuse survivors, but they chose to stay friends with Vanessa James despite her involvement in the Cipres situation (and Guillaume even choreographed programs for Vanessa). I'm still a big fan of P/C, and I don't believe they should be "canceled", but I think it's fair to call them out because these actions are harmful, even if they seem insignificant in comparison to Nikita's abuse allegations. The punishment for driving 10 mph over the speed limit shouldn't be as severe as the punishment for murder, but it's still fair to give out speeding tickets because speeding can cause accidents.
In my thread, I was actually trying to point out the discrepancy between P/C's actions and Nikita's and the hypocrisy of skating fans who support S/K because they think P/C are too problematic. I should have used clearer wording to emphasize this discrepancy, but my main point was about how the FS fandom seems to give Nikita a free pass in comparison to other skaters.