While models are typically thin, I've been seeing more and more messages along the lines of "real women have curves". How is this better than making thin people an ideal? It's still telling women that something is wrong with them if they don't fit a certain standard, but with a different standard applied.
Some real women have curves. Some don't. The message should be that real women come in all shapes, sizes and appearances.
Nobody is questioning if a living woman “is real”, or any living human for that matter.
But
all humans are born with different shapes and features: forms, height, weight, and with different talents and abilities. Such features affect what activities “a particular human” can succeed in, not just in sports but practically in everything. If a person does not have a voice, he/she can not become an opera singer. If one is afraid of heights, one can’t become a fire fighter… etc.
There are 4 main issues (as I see it) associated with “shape/weight”.
- Athletics/Physical features of an individual – do directly influence and affect success in many types of sports.
- Health/danger to health – should take priority over any sports requirements.
- Aesthetics – a personal preference.
- Sexual attraction – even more personal and complex.
In sports which do have prominent requirements for “shape/form/weight/height”, unless “the liberal society” wants to lower the plank and make an even playing field for the “less fortunate” who not born with required features, the MESSAGE should be “evaluate yourself, your abilities, your health properly” against what is required to succeed in a particular activity”, and if you don’t have it, go do something else; don’t bitch about your age, your shape, your forms.. If you’re not shaped to jump, run, dive, balance, stretch… it’s not others fault! Find another activity, you don’t have what it takes… or stay, but then accept that your results will not be high…
….do we want to limit Ladies’ figure skating routines to only 3 double-jumps, to accommodate busty/butty Gedevanishvili…
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/76/Elene_GEDEVANISHVILI_TEB2009.jpg
… so that she can compete with someone like Sasha Cohen and hinder Sasha Cohen’s progress and possibilities?
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_i5JIyaSR6cg/S11P8u0fj9I/AAAAAAAADLg/psUHSua5jUA/s400/Sasha+Cohen3.jpg
Aesthetics… I grew up in USSR, without “top fashion models”, “western adverts with beautiful women”, in a country with relatively unhealthy diet where most women in late 20’s and on lost shape and became “very round”, and where “female beauty standard” was “farm and factory worker”…
And yet since the age of 6-7, when parents took me to art museums, and later in life, I found human shapes on paintings by Rubens, Boucher, etc.. very unpleasant to look at, preferring human shapes by Botticelli, Erte, Whistler, and the likes…
This is the images of soviet athletes and celebrities I grew up with which were shoved into my face and brain for 13 years, without alternatives..
http://russian7.ru/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/01.jpg
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kbLJXJtPoCY/UZET5IVHE5I/AAAAAAAAA5k/PaN8a-uSeLc/s1600/01.jpg
https://kulturologia.ru/files/u19001/Svetlana-Svetlichnaya-2.jpg (soviet movie star).
….. and yet I immediately fell in love with images of Whistler
http://www.artsandartists.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Whistler-1.jpg and Erte
https://www.artbrokerage.com/art/erte/_images/erte_87895_6.jpg because of their elongate shapes without “extra meat”. Nobody taught me, nobody influenced me; there were no conversations at ALL on the subject when I was growing up. And no amount of today’s social engineering, through media or advertising, or “messages” will convince me that “full bodied” is more beautiful than “slender and slim”, while I consider that ALL people are “real”.
As to “sexual attraction” and forms/shapes/weight, it is strictly individual, and is to some degree, influenced by culture, time, and many other factors….. But! In western societies most men, while like “curves” still prefer slender elegant well formed bodies. And no amount of “messages” will immediately affect one’s “sexual desires”. Unless there is law commanding men to lend their bed to "affirmative action for big girls" (which i see the media is trying to do at times), most western men will go with the "model type" or "healthy slender type"... and there is nothing "progressive equalizers" can do about it....