Yazmeen
All we are saying, is give peace a chance
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aftershocks: We also don't know what Adam, and Nathan, and Vincent, and Nathan and every other competitor has had to overcome aside from known injuries. And I brought up Frank and Linda as a cautionary tale about the damage that can occur from not letting a disappointment go. And you're one to talk about people not surmising how someone is feeling: May I quote??? " Why would they [the young athletes] want to come back to the rink? You can bet that many parents of skaters are asking themselves that question too." Somehow I doubt you ran a survey for your "data" here about skating parents...
And Ross's character was NOT underestimated or attacked in a few careless words. After the Ashley/Mirai debacle, USFS had to clearly explain why they left Ross off the team. Sorry that it came off to you as diminishing him, but that was not it's intent. If they had not done that, everyone would be screaming (and you especially would likely be writing encyclopedic volumes) about how unfair it was that they didn't explain WHY they made the decision.
The criteria were set WELL before Nationals and the athletes were made well aware of their content. And using them does not make Nationals a useless competition. Ross may be the nicest guy on the entire planet; but one good competition after 2 years of mediocre results does not necessarily an Olympic contender make. Even if that makes you or the competitor and his/her coach angry.
And Ross's character was NOT underestimated or attacked in a few careless words. After the Ashley/Mirai debacle, USFS had to clearly explain why they left Ross off the team. Sorry that it came off to you as diminishing him, but that was not it's intent. If they had not done that, everyone would be screaming (and you especially would likely be writing encyclopedic volumes) about how unfair it was that they didn't explain WHY they made the decision.
The criteria were set WELL before Nationals and the athletes were made well aware of their content. And using them does not make Nationals a useless competition. Ross may be the nicest guy on the entire planet; but one good competition after 2 years of mediocre results does not necessarily an Olympic contender make. Even if that makes you or the competitor and his/her coach angry.