Judiz, I hope they do find an outpatient program for you, a good one that your insurance covers. FWIW, when my hubby was ready to be discharged from Mt Sinai in NYC, to our home in NJ, I had to do my own post planning because they didn't know NJ. The discharge planning at his next rehab was also ridiculous. I figured it all out myself. The only useful social workers were at his first hospital, Roosevelt. (He was at three in all, a month in each, then in-home care for a month, then outpatient rehab and doctors. Our insurance covered all that: ICU, acute rehab, subacute rehab, home care, and outpatient care.)
If they don't come up with something you like, they can at least explain to you what types of programs exist and what your insurance will cover. (You could find out all that yourself but they know it by heart and can save you the trouble. You need all the help you can get!) Once you know exactly what you are looking for, it is not that hard to find lists and go check them out or get recommendations. The closed FB support group I keep mentioning had members with lots of helpful experience to share. A local support group also put me in touch with someone whose husband had had an injury very similar to my husband's - she gave me some very helpful advice and info. Sometimes, often even, an experienced caregiver is more helpful than an average social worker.
About psychiatrists, everyone in my FB support group stresses the importance of finding one with expertise in TBI -- in your case, it would be expertise in your husband's specific illness. To some extent you can find that out on the internet if you can't get a personal recommendation. I asked three different people in NJ, two doctors and a caregiver, to recommend a psychiatrist with TBI expertise, and all three independently recommended the same guy -- in NYC. That is how specialized it gets. We ended up not using a psychiatrist though.
Please excuse me if I am telling you things you already know. I just remember how overwhelmed and alone I was with all these decisions. Feel free to PM me if I can be of any help. God be with you!
I hope it all goes well. 
