No. By this definition you should be able to see a 5 foot barely hundred pound skater lift another 5 foot barely hundred pound skater. The more likely scenario, though, would be a slightly larger, slightly heavier skater lift a slightly shorter, slightly lighter skater, which was exactly the situation with VM.
ETA: I know dancers don’t do overhead lifts, but I have seen acrobats do it. So I do think it can be trained, but there may have to be some rule adjustments as well. I’m not familiar enough with pair lifting requirements to know what those changes might be.