@mrinalini I have no idea what his sexual orientation is and I don't speculate because I don't really care (also because for a lot of fans it plays into the fantasy they create). But ITA that real person shipping is absolutely disgusting. As
@canbelto said, shipping skaters has nothing to do with reality or thinking of skaters as living, breathing human beings but rather as a part of some fantasy. They view these real people as characters in a story to manipulate: they don't care that Hanyu and Medvedeva are friends/colleagues who are miles apart in personality, maturity, and career stage. They just care that they think a relationship between them is cute.
The most public incident of this I can think of and how it can freak out skaters was back in Vancouver. Some fans (figure skating fans in particular) created a "kink meme" themed for the Olympics. Basically a place where someone could request that someone else write porn about a character (or in this case athlete). For whatever reason people watching the Olympics wanted to read a LOT about specific figure skaters, and in particular Johnny Weir. Well, turns out the athletes in question found that "kink meme" and even Weir (who is pretty open about his sexuality) was creeped out about it, especially since he was often portrayed as being rather promiscuous and kinky. IIRC at least one other skater spoke out about how disturbed they were by it, but I don't remember who, and I think more skaters than just Johnny Weir were unlucky enough to find the site. I would assume it's now down as it was on LiveJournal, but the fanfiction movement is still going strong and creepy as ever. ETA: If you want to read more about this disgusting part of the figure skating fandom (I'm not sure why), you can find a
history of it here.