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Alex is a 30-year-old man. Do the bare effing minimum and treat your sister with respect.
No, he did not mean "Asian" - he most definitely meant "skating culture". Stop trying to read the political into everything.
Actually, I stopped watching after the first 30 seconds.This was a horrible watch. Whether you are frustrated or not you should never speak to another person like that. It makes it worse when it’s your sibling and team mate. Makes you wonder whose idea the comeback was…
Good God. If you ever venture to watch even 30 seconds of the video, you'll be crawling back here apologizing for sounding so moronic. Guaranteed.OK. You have seen one clip from one video released by a known troublemaker and you think that’s representative of entire relationship.interesting
First of all the fact that some you’re even still following David lease raises questions
I’m not about to watch a video to give that man attention. But of course you can’t resist endorsing someone who is abusive to skaters. And of course he’s going to post a video that would look this way because it fits in with his entire motive.
Dave Lease is very much not the topic here. I don't think there's a single person on this forum who thinks he is a good guy who shared this video of the Shibutanis because he wants to change figure skating culture or because he cares about Maia's well-being. He did it because he thrives on creating chaos and getting attention for the chaos he created.OK. You have seen one clip from one video released by a known troublemaker and you think that’s representative of entire relationship.interesting
First of all the fact that some you’re even still following David lease raises questions
I’m not about to watch a video to give that man attention. But of course you can’t resist endorsing someone who is abusive to skaters. And of course he’s going to post a video that would look this way because it fits in with his entire motive.
I saw on reddit that this video is actually over 40 minutes long and just more of the same type of treatment...Dave Lease is very much not the topic here. I don't think there's a single person on this forum who thinks he is a good guy who shared this video of the Shibutanis because he wants to change figure skating culture or because he cares about Maia's well-being. He did it because he thrives on creating chaos and getting attention for the chaos he created.
However, this does not change the fact that we now witnessed an 11-minute and 32-second video clip of Alex Shibutani verbally and emotionally abusing his sister, Maia. This is what we should be discussing. It's hard to imagine this is a singular incident, and it raises many red flags regarding their current state of mind and the power dynamics in their partnership. That's the only thing we should be focusing on, not only for the sake of making a change in the sport, but also in order not to give Dave Lease exactly what he is looking for.
Right... I don't at all know enough about how their dynamic within their own family is, to see whether or not this actually works for them.That was amazing. Obviously, Alex was frustrated. But I have to confess that minus the curse-words, I enjoyed it and learned a lot about how a program gets built. And also about rockers.
I would say that Maia held her own, standing up for herself and calling out Alex for changing the steps. In her mind, was this basically a debate about choreography and step placement? If so, I don't understand why she seemed to play dumb about the points he was making about speed and direction. Maybe she enjoyed getting a rise out of him.
I wonder if there are any partnerships that are truly "equal," instead of the stronger partner taking the upper hand.
At the Phila Championships there was a (non-senior) sibling dance team where, off-ice, the brother was telling his sister about the timing of the step. To me, it sounded demeaning, perhaps a tiny bit cruel, but the brother had a point -- when I saw their timing on the ice, she was late with a step, not counting the beat of the music. I do wonder about these sibling dance-teams relationships in general... family dynamics and big-brother-bossiness/ass-hattery coming onto the ice.
Was that brother calling his sister a b*tch too? I hope not. This is not some young novice junior getting upset. It is a 34 year old man acting ridiculous.That was amazing. Obviously, Alex was frustrated. But I have to confess that minus the curse-words, I enjoyed it and learned a lot about how a program gets built. And also about rockers.
I would say that Maia held her own, standing up for herself and calling out Alex for changing the steps. In her mind, was this basically a debate about choreography and step placement? If so, I don't understand why she seemed to play dumb about the points he was making about speed and direction. Maybe she enjoyed getting a rise out of him.
I wonder if there are any partnerships that are truly "equal," instead of the stronger partner taking the upper hand.
At the Phila Championships there was a (non-senior) sibling dance team where, off-ice, the brother was telling his sister about the timing of the step. To me, it sounded demeaning, perhaps a tiny bit cruel, but the brother had a point -- when I saw their timing on the ice, she was late with a step, not counting the beat of the music. I do wonder about these sibling dance-teams relationships in general... family dynamics and big-brother-bossiness/ass-hattery coming onto the ice.
No. It came from Dave Lease's Patreon. It wouldn't have been out there at all had it not been for DL, regardless of any motives the person who copied & shared it from DL's Patreon account may have.Will this put an end to their comeback? Was this the point? Could it be that a Maia sympathizer posted this as the only way to get to her brother? But we've seen this many times and heard about it concerning Russian couples, correct? So why them, and why now? My question is, is this the norm, and if it is I'm really glad for those who got out early. This was dehumanizing and just awful to see.
But how did Lease even get access to their training base? Is it that competitors, eager to secure their placement, conspired to get this out there? Female ice dance and pairs partners must be built differently, because I've heard tales worse than this. Does Safesport frown on things like this? Could he be suspended, thus drowning their comeback plans?No. It came from Dave Lease's Patreon. It wouldn't have been out there at all had it not been for DL, regardless of any motives the person who copied & shared it from DL's Patreon account may have.
DL was monitoring the Live Barn feed from the rink where they were having their private training session. For whatever reason, they haven't gotten the rink to shut the Live Barn cameras off while they're on their private ice time.But how did Lease even get access to their training base? Is it that competitors, eager to secure their placement, conspired to get this out there? Female ice dance and pairs partners must be built differently, because I've heard tales worse than this. Does Safesport frown on things like this? Could he be suspended, thus drowning their comeback plans?
They don't have a coach in a traditional sense. In fact there aren't really any Junior/Senior level ice dance coaches in Southern California. The closest would be in NorCal, but that's only a handful and those coaches have only had success developing skaters - not actually having them compete at the highest level.Not to be nitpicky, but he's 34. I hate to think of how he treated her when he was younger.
Where's their coach?
Not to add fuel to the fire, but there is a known ex-girlfriend (a publicly confirmed relationship) who's made similar allegations about an ex-boyfriend, whom she hasn't named but has referred to with some descriptive and timeline clues that would seem to align with Alex. If correct, this might suggest a pattern that extends beyond this singular family and/or professional relationship or moment in time.