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From personal experience - not all verbal and other abuse is seen by others in the family.
When the spouses confront the person doling out the abuse, the other family members and circle of friends jump to the defense of the abuser, ESPECIALLY if they are dependent on the good will of the abuser. When the one spouse (the one blood related) does not publicly continue that defense, it is difficult sometimes impossible for the relationship to survive.
I suspect Harry learned quickly growing up, how the winds would blow being the "spare" and all. Learned who the BRF and public would believe and was quiet to keep the peace when he was alone in that world.
I for one am glad he is supportive of Meaghan. I'm glad he feels supported by her to tell his story.
I wonder how the situation would play out if Catherine was bi-racial, had been married before, had a successful career as an actress and William chose her. Would the BRF have accepted her, would the public have accepted her? Would the BRF questioned who ethnicity Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis would favor? If any Meaghan detractors are truly, truly honest - they would say No.
As I read the linked article, it depends upon the definition of year - the calendar or fiscal year. Does it read that Charles provided funds for H&M through March, and the BRF fiscal year begins April? Calendar year vs Fiscal year - words matter in terms on monetary support.
When the spouses confront the person doling out the abuse, the other family members and circle of friends jump to the defense of the abuser, ESPECIALLY if they are dependent on the good will of the abuser. When the one spouse (the one blood related) does not publicly continue that defense, it is difficult sometimes impossible for the relationship to survive.
I suspect Harry learned quickly growing up, how the winds would blow being the "spare" and all. Learned who the BRF and public would believe and was quiet to keep the peace when he was alone in that world.
I for one am glad he is supportive of Meaghan. I'm glad he feels supported by her to tell his story.
I wonder how the situation would play out if Catherine was bi-racial, had been married before, had a successful career as an actress and William chose her. Would the BRF have accepted her, would the public have accepted her? Would the BRF questioned who ethnicity Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis would favor? If any Meaghan detractors are truly, truly honest - they would say No.
As I read the linked article, it depends upon the definition of year - the calendar or fiscal year. Does it read that Charles provided funds for H&M through March, and the BRF fiscal year begins April? Calendar year vs Fiscal year - words matter in terms on monetary support.