I Luv Bulldogs
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That's a bummer! I really thought they were the future of Canadians pairs. Wish them both the best going forward.
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Daleman brother has a partnerWhat a sad day for skating fans. I thought they would have gotten over their issues. His goals are extremely lofty thought a 100% health Julianne would maybe come close to the podium top 5![]()
Maybe she can skate with Dalmans brother.
Despite the dissapointing results at worlds I still think they were on the right track so maybe the decission was due to her health problems?? Any day I would be bummed but today with Denis news it just feels mehh. I still hope the best for both though.
And yeah bad timing with Lubov already doing cirque du soleil. A team of Iliushechkina/Bilodeau would have been very promising.
An article in French, with quotes from both Charlie and Julianne. She says she did not see it coming, but respects his decision. She too will be looking for a new partner.
https://ici.radio-canada.ca/sports/1113733/jai-senti-que-cetait-le-moment-charlie-bilodeau
« C’est quand même un ami, un partenaire, presque un frère que je perds. On peut dire ça comme ça. Charlie, je l’aimais beaucoup, on s’entend. »
This is going to make it rather difficult for me to wish him well with any future partner(s).
(Feel free to tell me I’m being unreasonable, that skaters should be totally free to chase their own success, etc. etc. I understand those arguments logically, but I don’t emotionally agree.)
I did (and my French is quite good). I'm still mad.You should really read the whole article before getting mad.
In terms of putting a lot of time and money into it, Julianne basically just lost the money of a summer's worth of training and choreography costs because of this decision, as well as the possible potential of earning any money through competition and shows this coming season. (Obviously, Charlie has lost the same things financially, but it was his decision, so he chose the consequences as well.)These athletes work hard, put a lot of money and time into it. What would you do if you knew you were topped as a skater, that you gave it a try and it just didn’t work anymore?
I wish Lubov hadn't signed on with Cirque......
Lubov has posted many times on her IG recently about joing the "Crystal" tour: https://www.instagram.com/p/BkqwcYRgnNn/?taken-by=lubov_ilyushechkinaShe did? Do you have a source for this?
I did (and my French is quite good). I'm still mad.
In terms of putting a lot of time and money into it, Julianne basically just lost the money of a summer's worth of training and choreography costs because of this decision, as well as the possible potential of earning any money through competition and shows this coming season. (Obviously, Charlie has lost the same things financially, but it was his decision, so he chose the consequences as well.)
I would not automatically decide that I was so good that there was inevitably someone better out there for me, and would at least give it more time and hard work before jumping ship on a long-term partnership that has already been more successful than most athletes will achieve in their lifetime.
Just my opinion; obviously YMMV.
And they had made training changes like working with Meagan. He even referenced that. So I could see wanting to try it, then still feeling like it wasn't enough.I agree that the timing could have been better considering money and time was already spent preparing for the new season. However, you're not living his life and this is not your career nor are you living in that partnership at the moment so you can't really fathom what he's feeling. Maybe the reason why he waited until now to make make this decision was because he was already trying desperately hard to make it work and realized it just won't.
Yes, I understand that. However, I was just replying to the previous poster who had asked what I personally would do if I were in a similar situation.I agree that the timing could have been better considering money and time was already spent preparing for the new season. However, you're not living his life and this is not your career nor are you living in that partnership at the moment so you can't really fathom what he's feeling.
English Translation: http://chocktaw-salchow.tumblr.com/post/176078772178/translation-i-felt-it-was-the-right-momentAn article in French, with quotes from both Charlie and Julianne. She says she did not see it coming, but respects his decision. She too will be looking for a new partner.
https://ici.radio-canada.ca/sports/1113733/jai-senti-que-cetait-le-moment-charlie-bilodeau
Yes, I understand that. However, I was just replying to the previous poster who had asked what I personally would do if I were in a similar situation.
But how does one ever "know" something like that for sure? It's always some evidence plus a gut feeling; it's never actually a fact that just because things seem stalled now, they are never going to work. I'm not a skater, but I speak from significant life experience with similar situations in which a younger me would have stated with great certainty that something was absolutely not going to get better, but present me has the hindsight to say that the situation did improve with a lot of patience and dedication, and actually surpassed the potential I would have thought could be reached in the past.Yeah, but I don't think you considered everything that poster put forth about the situation for you to consider especially the part where they asked what would you do if you knew it just didn't work anymore. Why prolong something that you know just wasn't working anymore? Put yourself in that situation not one where the fact that it is a long-term partnership may mean it can be improved or get better.
I don't think that's necessarily the right analogy. To me, it seems more like a marriage that appeared to be going on as normal with a few bumps in the road that seemed to be navigable - or at least one spouse seemed to believe that the problems were navigable and was not told otherwise - and then the other spouse unilaterally files divorce papers without giving any advance warning or reasons. In the Radio Canada article (posted earlier in the thread), Julianne essentially said she was very surprised by the decision and is still reeling and trying to figure it all out. (She said it is still not clear to her what caused the split, and that she was still trying to understand what happened and how it happened.)I just don't feel comfortable judging unhappy partners and criticizing them for not staying in a partnership if they feel it's no longer working and that they felt they tried to make work when I'm not in that situation nor do I know anything about that situation. It's like outsiders telling married partners they shouldn't get divorced or shaming them to stay in a unhappy marriage without really knowing the situation. Like you said, they are in a longtime partnership so I doubt Charlie made this decision lightly.
I don't think that's necessarily the right analogy. To me, it seems more like a marriage that appeared to be going on as normal with a few bumps in the road that seemed to be navigable - or at least one spouse seemed to believe that the problems were navigable and was not told otherwise - and then the other spouse unilaterally files divorce papers without giving any advance warning or reasons. In the Radio Canada article (posted earlier in the thread), Julianne essentially said she was very surprised by the decision and is still reeling and trying to figure it all out. (She said it is still not clear to her what caused the split, and that she was still trying to understand what happened and how it happened.)
Again, this is my opinion and you are free to disagree. I am sure Charlie didn't make the decision lightly, but from the information provided, I also don't see it as a "I tried everything and things just weren't working" choice.
I just don't feel comfortable judging unhappy partners and criticizing them for not staying in a partnership if they feel it's no longer working and that they felt they tried to make work when I'm not in that situation nor do I know anything about that situation. It's like outsiders telling married partners they shouldn't get divorced or shaming them to stay in a unhappy marriage without really knowing the situation. Like you said, they are in a longtime partnership so I doubt Charlie made this decision lightly.
And the second question here: Who is this partner for him that is “better” than Julianne? I’m not seeing some great girl sitting on the sidelines. This is not 1998 and a Jamie Sale is just waiting around.
Reading between the lines, I’d say he’s hinting she wasn’t working hard enough. Or at least that’s what it sounds like to me.
Won’t Charlie have to sit out this season, though, before he can compete internationally?