skatesindreams
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I face this every day with my son and only hope I have the courage to let him go when it's time. I like to think I will, but thinking and doing are two very different things.
I question if useful data could come from this experiment anyway. It's one child in uncontrolled circumstances whose body and brain are already deteriorating. Studies have protocols for a reason. It doesn't seem likely this child would meet them.The idea of testing a new cure is good as it could help medicine progress for future but then is he a "guinea pig?"
I question if useful data could come from this experiment anyway. It's one child in uncontrolled circumstances whose body and brain are already deteriorating. Studies have protocols for a reason. It doesn't seem likely this child would meet them.
But orphan disease research still has some ethical standards as well as some controls. Particularly when children or those who could be put in the study without consent.The standards for orphan disease research are, understandably, very different. Not saying there aren't controlled trials, but to get to that point you often need to do meta-analyses of case studies first.
But orphan disease research still has some ethical standards as well as some controls. Particularly when children or those who could be put in the study without consent.
From reports this family believes there is a possibility of cure. That's lack of ethical standards.
The case is back in the High Court today and Charlie's parents have already walked out claiming it is biased and a disagreement with one of the High Court judges. There is an argument going on in regards to the whether Charlie's skull is growing. The Dr's say no thus suggesting there is no brain development but the mother claims she has been measuring it and disagrees with the Dr's measurements. The Judge have ordered an independent outside agency to measure the skull within the next 24 hours. I really believe the parents are clutching at straws and it is heart-breaking for all concerned.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-40593286
Unfortunately, these parents seem unwilling to accept the reality of medical information which they have undoubtedly been given by many experts. They are prolonging the suffering of their child; and themselves.
A couple of weeks ago IIRC, Charlie's vent was going to be turned off after the courts had said no more. His parents said that the hospital refused to let them take him home to die. There was no reason given for this stance. I found this to be quite shocking. Does anyone know the hospital's reasoning behind this? Seems to me had they allowed this, Charlie would no longer be suffering.Unfortunately, these parents seem unwilling to accept the reality of medical information which they have undoubtedly been given by many experts. They are prolonging the suffering of their child; and themselves.
I wonder if they have counsellors involved? This must be so difficult, I cannot imagine.
A couple of weeks ago IIRC, Charlie's vent was going to be turned off after the courts had said no more. His parents said that the hospital refused to let them take him home to die. There was no reason given for this stance. I found this to be quite shocking. Does anyone know the hospital's reasoning behind this? Seems to me had they allowed this, Charlie would no longer be suffering.
I think dying at home sounds simpler than it is. It's not the matter of unhooking him from all these machines and taking him home to die after a warm time at home; rather, he could easily die on the way home or before. Would he be in pain while this happens? How stressful is the transfer to his body? Or do you transfer all the equipments home, at a great cost both financially and staff wise? Then does the NHS have to offer that to every dying child or patient? Plus, Charlie has been in the hospital since October - the hospital has sadly been his home for most of his life.
This is all just my thoughts, so others more informed can correct me if I am wrong.
This. I remember a family whose little boy was dying of leukemia. Dad was going to "put him on life support until they found a cure". The baby oncologist was wanting to do everything. Mom was more realisticI have absolutely no doubt that the hospital must have offered counselors and social workers at every step, but you can't make someone accept counseling if they don't want it.
It gets to be really sticky when you factor in cost. The decisions at this level are not (I would think) made by a cost analysis. If a cost-benefit analysis were made on each surgery, intensive care decision, hospice.........where do you start and where do you stop? Take the motorcyclist who is whizzing down the highway between cars and crashes. Do you spend millions on someone who clearly through their behavior brought this on themselves. How do you treat smokers in end stage lung failure?
How about a fertility treatment pregnancy that is not reduced? 5 babies born.......2 lbs and under. Require gazillions of dollars. All make it. Virtually fine. (Busby Family - TLC's Outdaughtered). Where do you leave room for miracles? And, how do you decide?
Healthcare providers cannot - and should not - provide care on the basis of whether a person brought a problem or condition on themselves. The duty of care cannot exclude people on this basis. In addition, determining whether a person brought a problem or condition on themselves is tricky. It's not only smokers or obese people. What about a skier who gets severely injured performing daredevil tricks? What about athletes in general, some of whom may utilize healthcare resources more than the average person? What about women who get pregnant knowing they will require extensive care because they have specific health concerns or risks? Parents who choose to have special needs children that will demand a lot from the healthcare system, when they have the option of aborting?
A health care provider simply cannot deny care on such bases. They can't refuse to treat a severely injured person who drove drunk, and only treat the victim. Making such judgments is contrary to the duty of care.
A health provider simply can't decide to treat only 1 of 5 babies.
There are certain costs that societies simply have to bear, arguably for the collective good. It's part of what is known as the social contract.
In the US, at least, this is done as a hospice situation. The patient or decision-maker signs an "out-of-hospital" DNR. Then the intensive care that is not improving the condition but rather delaying the dying process is stopped. Patient care is definitely continued, though. Then the hospice team accompanies the patient home and continues to provide hospice care, including pain control and hydration, in that setting. It may be brief or it may be prolonged, and there is definitely a cost involved. I've been involved in several cases like this, and more often than not, the families regret making the decision to go home because it becomes so overwhelming to go from so much external support to so little.It's not the matter of unhooking him from all these machines and taking him home to die after a warm time at home; rather, he could easily die on the way home or before. Would he be in pain while this happens? How stressful is the transfer to his body? Or do you transfer all the equipments home, at a great cost both financially and staff wise?
Why guilt?I wonder if the parents and especially the moms in these situations choose to continue out of guilt. Like - your the mom, how dare you not do everything to keep your kid alive. And it becomes less about the welfare of the child himself.
I know I would feel guilt in such a situation, like I'm a lesser mom.