Actually I think you are saying that general agreement with an institution or principle doesn’t mean no exceptions can be made.Right -- in both cases, it is unfair.
Stock raises the issue of self-IDed trans women in spaces where women are fearful of biological males, including domestic violence shelters. I think it’s a legitimate concern until and unless it is shown to be baseless, and I’m not sure how that’s done without allowing biological males into those spaces for some long, researchable period of time. So the question is, does the potential harm to biological females in a safe-space environment outweigh the exclusion of trans-women who might themselves need help?
This is just an example. I am unsure of the right answer but I don’t think Stock is Hitler for exploring the question.