Oh, so whatever is going on on your side of the ocean should not be discussed otherwise people get accused from whataboutism? So it is ok to do this to US girls?
First of all, we've implemented SafeSport and all kinds of laws were implemented to address various abuses have been written about in the American media in various sports programs once athletes started speaking out. You just have to Google it and find all kinds of write-ups and commentary on the way child athletes (and beyond, like child stars) have been treated. Look at Maggie Haney recently in gymnastics. Of course it's not perfect, especially SafeSport, but there was a reaction and it's not going away. The conversation is even happening in American football, the institution that would probably be the most resistant to change and props up the mythical military idea of "toughing it out".
With regard to children, a lot of parents now are rethinking a lot of things and various children's sports programs have implemented changes due do that demand. Of course, it hasn't reached everywhere, and there is pushback from those who are afraid we're lowering the "toughness" standard in our growing children, but it's a long process and it'll never all change all at once and things will always need improving as that applies to all major attitudinal and societal change.
But one major point that you're not addressing is that this is a
FIGURE SKATING FORUM, so we don't just look at countries, but the sport as a whole and how athletes everywhere are being treated. We're much more in-tuned to what's going on in our sport because we're a forum that is dedicated to this sport, and we've grown aware and acquainted with the major athletes of figure skating. So if there's something that people find abusive, they'll talk about it. Whether it be Eteri, Mie Hamada, Callaghan, Gauthier, etc. I think you're choosing to forget the decade-long hate Tom Zakrasjek received that was sparked by the infamous Nationals Kiss n' Cry incident with Joshua Farris. Let's not forget how fans from all over the world been calling for and, as of right now, has received Dalilah Sappenfield's suspension for a while that was sparked by the Coughlin scandal and all of his behavior towards girls, which has then continued when all the female pairs skaters that have come out to talk about her bad behavior towards them outside of the Coughlin.
This next part is going to much more directed to you and it's going to sound harsh, but it's the truth of the matter.
I've respectfully stayed away from the Russian threads and other threads since I read a poster saying how it should be a space some specific posters can have to themselves so that they can stew in their feelings about Russia's ban and to partake and indulge in their whataboutism and the Russian victim complex. However, since you've now decided to bring this ridiculousness into to a thread I enjoy reading and that is unrelated to this issue, but fair game as this is a figure skating forum so figure skating issues always have the potential to seep into any topic, I was forced to read it. Now that you forced the rest of us who have respectfully stayed away from the topic in that special corner to read your dribble, I felt compelled to respond.
You're problem is that you're so stuck on this pro-Russia agenda that you're only interest lies in defending Russia's honor that you can't even see clearly anymore, and maybe you don't want to see clearly, which is giving you some credit actually.
First, you're mistaking
critique of Eteri's specific abuse allegations from her former pupils and from what what has been admitted
as criticism of Russia as an entire culture and country . . . though when the government and sports are doing their best to defend the abuse and hide the wrongdoings....I can see how it can come across as a critique of Russia as an entirety. Still, most of us actually like Russian skaters if we like the way they skate and have admired many. Personally-speaking, Russian pairs have been my all time favorite style and legacy since I became a fan, but that doesn't mean that I have to defend or ignore the harsh coaching and the abuse I've read from skaters of older generations who have come out and talked about the way female Russian (or Soviet) skaters were physically abused by their partners and how such abuse was tolerated and ignored by their schools. Luckily, a lot of those coaches aren't so "current" so we don't see them actively coaching anymore.
Second, to address your point about nobody being allowed to talk about abuses "on [our] side of the ocean", that is blatantly false. As stated with some examples I've given above, which is not even the majority of times people talked about abuse
in figure skating worldwide, this forum, generally speaking, has never had issues discussing abuses happening in U.S. sport. In fact, we've had thread after thread discussing times when skaters have charged specific coaching bases of abuse, neglect, and other behavior that has resulted in long-term harm to athletes well into their adulthood. In these threads, specific posters may fight back, but they may or may not be the same as those who have and are defending Eteri. We don't know because nobody has dissected every post every poster has made on every related to alleged abuse in this sport and compared it to their responses to the allegations directed at Eteri's camp by her former pupils and by what has been
admitted.
But you don't care about that because you don't actually care about the issue-at-hand. You're so fixated on defending Russia that you've become one-tracked minded about it to the point of willful ignorance and have been acting this way for a long time. Even if you had a point that
SOME fans have been politically-motivated and have used the very real allegations made by her former pupils for some anti-Russian agenda, (1) you can't differentiate those posters from most others whose consciences were genuinely shocked by what has been alleged and would be shocked no matter who the allegations were being directed towards, and (2) you don't even address that core issue but rather fixate on the over-inclusive hypocrisy that you think you are pointing out as if that was the most important point in all of this. It's hard to take you seriously.
As a reminder, the ultimate issue is the treatment of children as they are in the care of adult supervisors and coaches, all of whom who have a responsibility towards minors in their care, no matter whether the children's parents are paying the bills and they are technically an employee of the parent, because even with that, there is still a lot of control that the coaches and their staff have over the kids and a very serious power imbalance since it's there's an authoritative teacher/coaching to student dynamic going on.
At best you know that and are choosing to ignore it for your own anti-American/Western agenda, and at worst, you simply have the inability to comprehend it. Truthfully, the "worst" is what I actually suspect about you. Yes, that's blunt but you said you like blutness, so here we go.