My investigations reveal cases of abusers who are charismatic, trusted and revered: priests, mentors, coaches, teachers, scout leaders, family friends.
And abusers can be strategic. They gain the love and trust of colleagues and parents, then use that to their advantage.
"They start with the adults first, to prime the environment to be able to do it and to and to be able to get the access they need," said Noni Classen, director of education and support services at the Canadian Centre for Child Protection.
"These individuals who end up victimizing children are grooming not only the children, but grooming the adults," she added.
Those groomed adults defer to the abuser, not the child, for the truth.