I've been through a lot of pain about Mom...and I know I had plenty of fault in the whole matter as well. But...she was the adult. I never have had a mother I could confide in, talk to, cry to. Fortunately, I have had many great friends, and my own daughter is an absolute miracle. I swore I would be the mother to her that I never had. I have been far from perfect, but we do have a wonderful relationship and real friendship. I do not feel slighted by life. Sad, but ok. Thank you for your sympathy and sweetness in caring. You are a very special lady!