Some of the J-Pop legends like Kimura Takura and Fukuyama Masaharu have received massive death threats from their crazy fandoms and harassment from the paparazzi when they announced that they would get married, but they still managed to protect their wives very well. And even, if you really don't know how to deal with the fandom or the press, why not just send your wife to overseas countries to avoid them?
I do believe that the harassment from the press and fans is real, but using divorce as an excuse is the behavior of a true coward for me to be honest, because you just left your ex-wife in an even more vulnerable situation.