I sat down with both Eddie Zhou and Franco the night before they died at the hotpot resto, and I asked them specifically: is your goal to be part of Team USA? And both of them were like "no, no, no ... we are not that good." I know Eddie's parents well, and they'd be the first to tell you that they have no ambition that Eddie get to be Team USA -- all they do is to support what their son enjoys, and at that point it was skating but they feel that when college rolls by, he'd focus on college. So sad they never got to reach that point.
As Drew Meekins said, these kids simply love skating, and they are willing to work hard at it.
And parents are willing to spend money to support what their kids love, not necessarily because they think their kid is God's gift to figure skating (though I am sure there are those)
DL did such a good job doing the skater tributes, but it's so disgusting that his main thought was that some of them were not good enough