Yes, I agree with your BIG difference comment. What I'm not understanding, as I read this thread is when people say (regarding Shibs) that their mother should have stepped in and done something about the way her son was treating her daughter. Maia is a 31-year-old woman who shouldn't need her mother to step in for her. Obviously, I don't have any idea as to Maia's mental state or self-confidence ... BUT I do know that, if my brother was going off on me like that, I would have not an inkling of a problem telling him that I would NOT be treated like that by him or anyone else and that I was ending the skating partnership now. When he was ready to apologize for being such a jerk and was ready to treat me with the respect I deserve, he would know where he could reach me.