If only we had a time machine and could go back and right all the wrongs... Where WOULD we start? 2008 when Russia invaded Georgia? 1980 when the USSR invaded Afghanistan? 1968 when the USSR invaded Czechoslovakia to crush the Prague Spring movement? Every single time some form of Russia has invaded the Baltic nations or Finland? This is hardly a new thing with Russia, and history has proven it won't be the last.
You keep harping on the US, yet you have also stated that you live in the US, so you are free and open to criticize the very society that gives you that freedom, yet defend a government that is openly arresting anyone who even dares to call its current action in Ukraine anything but a "special military operation." Sure, the US government might not have labeled its actions in 1991 or post-2001 as wars, but that's because the US Constitution says that only Congress can declare war. Everyone knew exactly what Desert Storm and Operation Enduring Freedom were and no one was jailed for calling those actions war on TV, in the media, or for protesting against US military action. You just get back to us when any of that is true in Russia and then we might have something to discuss. As it is, you're here, safe, free to speak your mind, without worrying that your voice of dissent will land you in jail or worse. How do you ever sleep at night, living in such an awful country like the US?