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In other words….Fedor got around.Tessa and Fedor dated in the 2008-2010 timeframe (not sure of exact months/years). Meryl and Fedor started dating in 2011, I think.

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In other words….Fedor got around.Tessa and Fedor dated in the 2008-2010 timeframe (not sure of exact months/years). Meryl and Fedor started dating in 2011, I think.

One of these is not like the other.
Wrong choice of verb tense: Virtue had been dating Zoueva’s son (before Davis). Belbin before Virtue.D/W didn't "stay out of it." They made a choice. It may have been the right one for a number of reasons, personal and professional, but it was a choice. Shpilband didn't retire, and it's hard to imagine that if he had potential US Olympic champions that the right physical training conditions would have been assembled.
There were rumors at the time of the great rupture that the Shib's parents played a key role in his banishment from the rink.
Looking back on some old threads from that time, I see that there were also reports of the Shibs fighting during training. It makes me wonder whether that was really fighting or mainly Alex berating Maia.
It sounds to me as though they came to the rink to do their work and had lives outside of the ice rink without getting in the drama and mess to me the same way I go to work and come home to my family life, hobbies, and joys. It's absurd even if meant in jest to say that they would have to quit to successfully stay out of it. Like any other job, they had to pivot as best they could to do what would work best with them.If you count "your coaches break up and you keep skating with one of them" as "not staying out of it," then it's essentially impossible for anyone to stay out of it by that metric. Unless they were supposed to quit in order to successfully stay out of it.
It sounds to me as though they came to the rink to do their work and had lives outside of the ice rink without getting in the drama and mess to me the same way I go to work and come home to my family life, hobbies, and joys. It's absurd even if meant in jest to say that they would have to quit to successfully stay out of it. Like any other job, they had to pivot as best they could to do what would work best with them.
Quitting would be not staying out of it, too.If you count "your coaches break up and you keep skating with one of them" as "not staying out of it," then it's essentially impossible for anyone to stay out of it by that metric. Unless they were supposed to quit in order to successfully stay out of it.
Quitting would be not staying out of it, too.
] Olympics.com's article on the Junior ice dance cousin team of Anaëlle Kouevi, 15, and Yann Homawoo, 16, who, like Robertson/Rohner and Calhoun/Zheltshev, made their JGP debut earlier this season: https://www.olympics.com/en/news/ic...ouevi-yann-homawoo-making-mark-figure-skatingNo, sorry - Not capableAre you not capable of understanding that I was responding to a specific comment?

or that their mother stood by and allowed itok but none of that absolves Alex of his abusive behavior so
Thank you.I understand how rumors, especially negative clickbait, when repeated often enough can morph into seemingly "acceptable-enough" lore. But the "foaming at the mouth" extent that false statements regarding the Shibutani's has been compounding has clearly entered into defamatory territory.
I am not family or friend of the family. As an officer of a USFS sanctioned club for many years, I have direct knowledge of facts and the truth regarding several topics. I've never previously made it a practice to post, but at this point it is frankly no longer morally tolerable to not set the record straight.
1. The Shibutani's did not have any role in the break-up of the Shpilband/Zoueva coaching partnership. Shpilband's separation from the Arctic Edge Arena was in fact not caused by any of the skaters training with both coaches as has been stated and published repeatedly by both parties. Detailed legal claims remain largely confidential and the case was ultimately settled out of court. Both Meryl Davis and Charlie White were deposed. The Shibutani's were not involved in the decision and notably no members of the family were deposed.
2. The statement that the Shibutani's are substantial contributors to USFS - is blatantly false. Confirmed with the federation.
3. The family has never sought to own or invest in a skating rink. At a Hall of Fame event at 2023 Nationals, when I asked the father if he was aware that people believed the family had sought to own or underwrite a rink or training center, he found it absolutely flabbergasting. He thought it sadly familiar yet disturbing that so much effort gets put into fabricating false narratives aimed at undermining Maia and Alex's hard work and unprecedented achievements.
I am not saying it's right but brothers and sisters fight, and as the John Q public, it's none of our business. Our only business/obligation as skating FANs is to watch skating and judge just that their skating. I don't like how he treated his sister, but I also would be embarrassed if people had videos of my brother and I fighting when we were younger. BTW, I have witnessed a lot of fight among partners back in the day, and they were not brother and sister - You can't imagine the half of it!ok but none of that absolves Alex of his abusive behavior so
This was not a fight. It was abuse.I am not saying it's right but brothers and sisters fight, and as the John Q public, it's none of our business. Our only business/obligation as skating FANs is to watch skating and judge just that their skating. I don't like how he treated his sister, but I also would be embarrassed if people had videos of my brother and I fighting when we were younger. BTW, I have witnessed a lot of fight among partners back in the day, and they were not brother and sister - You can't imagine the half of it!
Exactly. Plus, one of the reasons Alex is so heavily criticized (aside from the obvious reason, which is the abuse) is that the Shibutanis spent their entire careers carefully putting together the most pristine and calculated brand of the perfect siblings who always "choose each other" (a line that became their go-to in recent interviews). So when the reality is so far from the image they've been pushing through their PR, and people start feeling that they're being gaslit into accepting Alex's behavior as some kind of a sibling quarrel instead of the textbook emotional abuse it was, the backlash is not only expected, but also reasonable.This was not a fight. It was abuse.
And I'm appalled that I've read in other places that what Alex did was ok because they're family, which implies that any abuse is ok because it's within a family.
Listen, I think that it's well beyond any of us to state, unequivocally, that the "we choose each other" is a carefully crafted PR brand for them. That may very well have been true when they were still young enough to have been presented with a choice - kind of like how Anthony Ponomarenko CHOSE to remain with Christina Carreira 7-8 years ago when Igor was allegedly trying to get him to dump her & partner with someone else. We don't even know what is currently true about the Shibutani partnership. Maia may very well still be actively choosing to skate with her brother rather than dump his sorry a$$ and live her own life.Exactly. Plus, one of the reasons Alex is so heavily criticized (aside from the obvious reason, which is the abuse) is that the Shibutanis spent their entire careers carefully putting together the most pristine and calculated brand of the perfect siblings who always "choose each other" (a line that became their go-to in recent interviews). So when the reality is so far from the image they've been pushing through their PR, and people start feeling that they're being gaslit into accepting Alex's behavior as some kind of a sibling quarrel instead of the textbook emotional abuse it was, the backlash is not only expected, but also reasonable.
I hope you mean when you were children. they are > 30.I don't like how he treated his sister, but I also would be embarrassed if people had videos of my brother and I fighting when we were younger.
Wonder why the local skating community in Michigan (these are skaters that trained at Canton and Ann Arbor with the parties involved - so not parent level of politics, but not naive to it either) was spreading that rumor in the first place then... I heard it from multiple skaters who trained at those rinks in real time. There were concerns it would disrupt some of the synchro scene/comps.The family has never sought to own or invest in a skating rink. At a Hall of Fame event at 2023 Nationals, when I asked the father if he was aware that people believed the family had sought to own or underwrite a rink or training center, he found it absolutely flabbergasting. He thought it sadly familiar yet disturbing that so much effort gets put into fabricating false narratives aimed at undermining Maia and Alex's hard work and unprecedented achievements.
Very well said!Listen, I think that it's well beyond any of us to state, unequivocally, that the "we choose each other" is a carefully crafted PR brand for them. That may very well have been true when they were still young enough to have been presented with a choice - kind of like how Anthony Ponomarenko CHOSE to remain with Christina Carreira 7-8 years ago when Igor was allegedly trying to get him to dump her & partner with someone else. We don't even know what is currently true about the Shibutani partnership. Maia may very well still be actively choosing to skate with her brother rather than dump his sorry a$$ and live her own life.
At best, we can be bothered and disturbed by what we saw in that video but none of us are inside their family dynamic and they may very well believe, even to this day, that they are choosing each other. The PR professional may simply be working with what they've got as far as branding and image because that's what the family is giving them.
I'm one of the more outspoken cynics around here and all I'm willing to venture on the topic of the Shibutanis relationship (siblings, parents, the entire family) is that it appears to be toxic in ways that many here believe they would separate themselves from if they found themselves in the same situation. But families are complex and I'm really happy none of you have ever met so many of the families I know, including my own, because y'all are seriously living on the edge of judgmental sanctimony.
Thanks for recently joining..This is a better spin than any Lucinda Ruh ever did.I understand how rumors, especially negative clickbait, when repeated often enough can morph into seemingly "acceptable-enough" lore. But the "foaming at the mouth" extent that false statements regarding the Shibutani's has been compounding has clearly entered into defamatory territory.
I am not family or friend of the family. As an officer of a USFS sanctioned club for many years, I have direct knowledge of facts and the truth regarding several topics. I've never previously made it a practice to post, but at this point it is frankly no longer morally tolerable to not set the record straight.
1. The Shibutani's did not have any role in the break-up of the Shpilband/Zoueva coaching partnership. Shpilband's separation from the Arctic Edge Arena was in fact not caused by any of the skaters training with both coaches as has been stated and published repeatedly by both parties. Detailed legal claims remain largely confidential and the case was ultimately settled out of court. Both Meryl Davis and Charlie White were deposed. The Shibutani's were not involved in the decision and notably no members of the family were deposed.
2. The statement that the Shibutani's are substantial contributors to USFS - is blatantly false. Confirmed with the federation.
3. The family has never sought to own or invest in a skating rink. At a Hall of Fame event at 2023 Nationals, when I asked the father if he was aware that people believed the family had sought to own or underwrite a rink or training center, he found it absolutely flabbergasting. He thought it sadly familiar yet disturbing that so much effort gets put into fabricating false narratives aimed at undermining Maia and Alex's hard work and unprecedented achievements.