Matryeshka
Euler? Euler? Anyone?
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Hello wise FSUers! I am having a lot of problems with my apartment managers--one of them I swear is the mother of all Karens--and I am done. DONE. I always said I never wanted the responsibility of owning a house, but my complex that I love and have lived in for TWO YEARS WITHOUT INCIDENT has become a living nightmare to the point that I am having genuine anxiety attacks. And what they've done to my mother who also moved to the complex after I sang its praises is even worse. So basically I am learning that in an apartment, your situation can go from a dream to a nightmare with one incompetent, inconsistent, unpleasant manager. (One of the teachers I work with also lived in my complex and ended up moving back in with her parents to save up to buy a house because dealing with this same manager made her not want to deal with apartments ever again.) Long and short of it: I need to buy a house.
So I am meeting with a lending officer person on Wednesday--she's a friend(ish) of mine and she used to be a teacher. I trust(ish) her advice, but I also know that she's looking to make money and probably wants me to take the biggest loan I can, and I'm looking to be cheap. Also, I will have a renter in October who will be paying 900/month (my mom. I never wanted to live with her again, but this is what will make it possible, and it's better financially for both of us.). My credit is terrible, but in the acceptable limits of terrible. I just qualify for a loan. Since I'm not looking to buy until my mom's lease is up in September, I'll have time to get it up 40 points to qualify for the good loans. (We're talking specifically about that on Wednesday, how to raise my credit.)
So dear FSUers, what are some questions I need to ask? What did you wish you had known when buying your first house, especially with the lending aspects of it? This is not necessarily btw my forever home--I'm just looking to get in the market. I don't need stainless steel and granite. I need functional--I am NOT handy nor is anyone I know--but it doesn't have to be new. I'd prefer no HOAs.
Any advice appreciated!
So I am meeting with a lending officer person on Wednesday--she's a friend(ish) of mine and she used to be a teacher. I trust(ish) her advice, but I also know that she's looking to make money and probably wants me to take the biggest loan I can, and I'm looking to be cheap. Also, I will have a renter in October who will be paying 900/month (my mom. I never wanted to live with her again, but this is what will make it possible, and it's better financially for both of us.). My credit is terrible, but in the acceptable limits of terrible. I just qualify for a loan. Since I'm not looking to buy until my mom's lease is up in September, I'll have time to get it up 40 points to qualify for the good loans. (We're talking specifically about that on Wednesday, how to raise my credit.)
So dear FSUers, what are some questions I need to ask? What did you wish you had known when buying your first house, especially with the lending aspects of it? This is not necessarily btw my forever home--I'm just looking to get in the market. I don't need stainless steel and granite. I need functional--I am NOT handy nor is anyone I know--but it doesn't have to be new. I'd prefer no HOAs.
Any advice appreciated!