@Rock2 I agree with most of what you say, but I never got the impression that Gracie preferred not to have attention. I don't mean that in a critical way, just that to me she seemed (at least initially) to be comfortable in the spotlight. Other skaters at elite levels didn't have as many sponsors as she did, and those wouldn't have come to an athlete without a strong public image.
IMO the hype that was put upon her as the "next one", plus the expectations and commitments that go with sponsorships, made a very unhealthy situation that would have been difficult for anyone to thrive in.
I think it's a bit of all of that.
Her first GP at SC (the event Osmond won) was a big flag for me, even at the time.
I remember thinking, "oooo, she doesn't look comfortable out there. at. all. I wonder if this is a one-off thing related to injury or other issue or if she's not loving the extra attention, stepping out of a junior career full of results and promise"...and then felt after that, that she never really became a consistent skater.
This is common, though, with skaters who are stepping up to a new level of expectation. Not all adjust. My friends remind me I said the exact same thing about Brezina in 2010, being 4th in the world, and with his technique and consistency a 4S and 4F were prob in future. I said out loud "ok now let's see how he skates as a world medal favorite in 2011". and....POOF. Never realized the immense potential. It's just how it is.
As you point out, add to it the sponsorships and expectations/hopes that come from a number of other places and it could end up being a house or cards. Le sigh.