FSWer: I am also someone who IS an ice dancer and just because I didn't check off that "box" doesn't make mean I'm not an ice dancer. I chose the "continue" box because that is what is most meaningful to me instead of being categorized as a particular type of skater. I want to learn solid skating skills to be the best skater and ice dancer I can be. I frankly don't care if I ever get a partner or compete as an ice dancer. As long as I'm happy with my progress and my coaches are happy, then I AN AN ICE DANCER and I'm enjoying what I want to do.
I am going to be blunt here -
several of us here have tried over and over to explain to you that our goals are to be the best skaters we can be, but you don't seem to understand or accept that we don't need to have partners to be ice dancers or pick a certain style of figure skating to compete or otherwise to be who we are. We have goals to achieve the best skills we can and use them in the best way that makes us happy.
And being happy and enjoying skating is the best. We wish that for you, too.