oleada
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I know I'm not the only FSU-er planning a wedding right now
We got engaged in November. Now that I have a date (June 3rd, 2017) and a venue, I feel a both more relaxed and more stressed. More relaxed because we have a date and a place and it fit our budget (have I mentioned how insane the NYC wedding scene is?) and stressed because I gotta find a dress, DJ, officiant, etc, and this shit is real now
A lot of our guests are form out of town/state/country, so I am both terrified no one will come and that everyone will. My parents want to invite EVERYONE, and since they live abroad they say "So and so won't come, but we have to invite them" and feel that sending the invitation is the polite thing to do, but I think it feels gift grabby. I think I'll use that the venue only fits 100 comfortably with dancing...
On another note - what's the polite way to say to people to please give us money rather than stuff? Is there one? We have a tiny one bedroom apartment that cannot fit anything else. I'm 28, he's 33 - we have all the stuff we need. Just not register and let that spread through word of mouth?
We got engaged in November. Now that I have a date (June 3rd, 2017) and a venue, I feel a both more relaxed and more stressed. More relaxed because we have a date and a place and it fit our budget (have I mentioned how insane the NYC wedding scene is?) and stressed because I gotta find a dress, DJ, officiant, etc, and this shit is real now
A lot of our guests are form out of town/state/country, so I am both terrified no one will come and that everyone will. My parents want to invite EVERYONE, and since they live abroad they say "So and so won't come, but we have to invite them" and feel that sending the invitation is the polite thing to do, but I think it feels gift grabby. I think I'll use that the venue only fits 100 comfortably with dancing...
On another note - what's the polite way to say to people to please give us money rather than stuff? Is there one? We have a tiny one bedroom apartment that cannot fit anything else. I'm 28, he's 33 - we have all the stuff we need. Just not register and let that spread through word of mouth?