'Rashomon' was one of the classics I studied as a film studies student. I remember thinking it was brilliant, but wonder if I would feel the same today.
I find so many of the great directors I studied in the 80s to actually have been misogynistic in retrospect. For example, I used to think 'Last Tango in Paris' was amazing, but since realized that I related to it because of my own experiences of objectification and sexualization as a woman. Maria Schnieder said she felt raped by both Marlon Brando and Bernardo Bertolucci in 'Last Tango' (the 'butter' scene), even though she consented to the scene in question. It haunted her for the rest of her life.
Similarly, I think I'd be bothered by Fellini's treatment of women today.
I do think, however, that Stanley Kubrick's films would stand the test of time better.
Which brings to mind '2001: A Space Odyssey' and the scene of the ape tossing the bone in the air, which then becomes a spaceship. As well as the final image of the film, of the fetus in space.
Two of the most memorable scenes of all time IMO.
In thinking of gender and film, I'm also reminded of 'Bad Timing: A Sensual Obsession'. If anyone has seen it, you'll remember the scene of her getting a tracheotomy - horrible, disturbing, and impossible to ever forget.
I wonder what happened to Nicolas Roeg.
I found Last Tango In Paris dreadfully boring that I could barely pay attention to it. I saw it years ago though so I actually don't really remember what it was even about. But from what I remember, I just didn't feel the characters' drive or emotional charge through the sex scenes. I actually found the sex to be kind of tame. I wonder if I would feel different if I saw it today. And I wonder how I'd feel about the concerns you had with the film.
One movie that I thought used sex (and real sex at that!) much better was the Japanese arthouse porn hit In the Realm of the Senses. But I do admit that the entire movie was very much an acquired taste. And it's also been many years since I saw that film so I also could feel differently about it if I were to watch it today.